im a 19 year old guy, im straight i think, but i dont know... does it make me bi if i want to try being wiht a guy, like i cant really think much about having sex with one or kissing one.. but i want to have a guy.. like a thin, same aged, feminine guy to give me oral or a handjob, and i want to touch another guys dick. i like women and everyhting a lot, i prefere hanging around women lots of times.. more in a small group, but i have lots of guy friends too that i get along with. but i want to maybe give a guy a handjob and have him pleasure me.. i hate thinking about it cause i wouldnt want a relationship or anything like that.. does it make me bi? what should i do, i dont know how to find a guy around here that i wanna do this with, but its stuck in my mind.. ive never been a real manly man either, but im not girly.. i dunno, what do you think?
You should just do away with labels and then see how you feel. If you wanna be with a guy once then you wanna be with a guy once, doesn't necessarily mean you're gay, could just mean you want to experiment and there's nothing wrong with that. Or maybe it does mean that you are attracted to men too but again, nothing wrong with that. Just make sure you accept however you feel and don't deny how you feel because whoever you're attracted to is who you're attracted to and its fine.
thanks guys, i kind've gotta figure out how to find a guy to try it with... but whatever, i guess it doesn't matter what i choose as long as i'm not confused about it right?
right now you're not really sure what you want... if you do stuff with a guy and enjoy it, then you're bi
