I posted last week about my bestfriend being 18 and going out with a 15 year old. I try to talk to him but he keeps saying "she's not a little girl, shes a very mentaly mature 15 year old"...how can some one who has to be home at 10:30 on friday nights be that mature? she also comes accross as a really big whore...last week they were hooking up for a long while and I went upstairs to talk to my gf and when they were done she said" your boy can't do shit" (regaurding him not being able to get the condom on) and gave him mean shit for it all night he even said "baby stop pushing my buttons...and on a side note he got kinda scared from somthing some one said and was talking to her and made her swear if(when) somthing happens to him she wount like go to the cops.. how the hell can i get through to him? its bad on so many levels
If she makes him happy and the age thing is legal in your part of the world I'd tell him to go for it. In my part of the country 18 is adult 15 is juvenile so that would be a legal issue. From what I read in your post I'm getting the impression of a relationship that can't make your friend happy over the long term. the girl seems to be very demanding and controlling and just from my standpoint as a guy thats not the kind of relationship I would want to be invovled in. Assuming the 18-15 age gap is not legal where you are, I'd first approach him about the legal issues. he's the one on the hook, not her. I'd make that clear. Second, I'd go into the personal issues, tell him he deserves better and needs someone who will treat him better. The world is full of women who want to devote themselves to their men and be loving and supportive. He could get a girl like that and not have to be controlled by someone who doesn't love him (if she really did love him she wouldn't treat him like that). Thats about all I can say on it. Go to him as a friend and express you concerns. That's all you can do. Everything else is ultimately up to him.
