how do i get my wife to do this for me?

we've been together for about 3 years and i've never really had the nerve to ask her to suck my dick. it just feels like an inappropriate thing to ask.

she's a classy lady. (pinky up)

i need a classy way of asking her to suck my dick.

 

I don't think you need a classy way to ask, I think you need to get her in a mood where she will grab your dick and suck it.

Do you give her oral sex?

 

I usually just say

"Do you want to suck it?"

or

"Would you like to suck it?"

or whatever... when things are already a bit heated.

Usually kisses come first (down there) and then sucking comes shortly afterwards...

 

i do give head oral but she never returns. i even toss her salad. what am i doing wrong here?!?!?

 

i thing my wife would be turned off if i asked her that way.

 

give her a credit card with unlimited spending..

 

start off asking something crazy first/...something way over the top

then ask

 

Guide her slowly by directing her to kiss, lick and nibble "here" and "now here please, Baby" and so on guiding her slowly, teasingly down you body, and eventually the base of of your cock, the shaft, the head, the balls, wherever you want. Just go meanderingly and slowly, and start with simple kisses. Get her to go from your mouth to your jaw, and keep going.

 

3 years and she hasn't sucked your dick yet? Good luck. Ask her if there is anything else you can do for her when it comes to pleasing her. Then say "Well there is one thing I would really like for you to try for me" Has she never given oral sex to anybody before? Maybe she just doesn't know how or is afraid of doing something wrong. I can't even imagine. I love doing it. I think I like it as much as he does.

 

Fun with a can of whip cream

 

A slow approach might be good yeah.

Maybe some women just don't like to do it, simple as that.

I was with a girl once who said she was never ok with people cumming on her face... and I know that women vary on that too lol

I have actually never done that to anybody including her, but I would imagine some women might therefore simply just not like giving oral sex.

 

Someones going to have to explain that one to me

 

Sure. But Why can't she even say out loud when asked, "No. I'm not going to do that. I don't want to. Don't raise the subject again." And if I've misunderstood, and she has, that makes the OP quite silly.

Why? Is Google broken? (Analingus)

 

Just place your penis near her face & ask if she wants to try something a bit adventurous ?

 

Well if you regularly use your mouth on her pussy AND her ass I don't think it's out of the question to have her reciprocate, i'm surprised it's never happened. Maybe this whole time she's just been DYING for permission to do it, but she's too shy to ask and you never offered!

Next time you finish going down on her, why don't you just cuddle for while, then say "now it's your turn" while guiding her hands to your cock.

 

She might only touch his penis - she may think he wants only her to do that & may need shown more than just that. Maybe ask her to kiss it & then see what she's willing to do to it after that. Or tell her to give you oral ?

 

really? "i want to suck my husband's dick, but he's never told me i'm allowed to so i assume he doesn't want it."

 

You wont know unless you / she ask or just go ahead & do it without asking.
I want to try & get my wife to kiss my penis sometime but that's far too adventurous for her. Unless I just put it in front of her face & ask if she loves me enough to try it ?

 

Absolutely. Many cultural and generational values could be at play here, as well as personal tastes and assumptions.

You'd be amazed what does and doesn't happen because of communication and lack thereof.

 

Wow. 3 years? Your mistake is you waited waaayyyy too long. You shoulda asked her for the this the first time you had sex. Not only that but you shoulda said you wanted to blow your load down her throat.

I suspect that she thinks it is not "lady like" to do that sort of thing. You have a long row to hoe in convincing her after all this time that she can be a lady at the dinner table and a slut in the bedroom. Don't get your hopes up. She might have done it when she was trying to win you but my bet is she has found her comfort zone. The idea that she is wanting to do this but afraid you aren't interested is just wishful thinking.

I wouldn't try to be too classy in asking her. You don't want classy in the bedroom. You need to get her to be slutty and talk dirty.