How do I get her to stop causing fights?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by senior17, May 3, 2013.

  1. senior17

    senior17 Guest

    ( see my other post) I put my foot down and told her to cut the act. Unfortunately, it was an act and she threatened to “blackmail” me and buy her things and basically be her servant. If I didn’t, she would bash me on Facebook, to her friends, and parents. I told her to fuck herself. Well, she did it, word got around that I forced her to do my chores and homework, called her names, and was only with her for sex. Every Facebook status by her or her friends is a direct shot at me, they tag me in these statuses. I told my friends what happened and she told hers the lies. I’m not sure just how effective the gossip has been as far as the rest of the grade. Recently, there have been these “Facebook fights” between my friends and I against her and her friends. I didn’t ask them to help me but they did and I’m sick of her causing fights. I've asked her in the hallways as nice as I could without groveling but she just laughed and patted me on the head( like she used to) and said " We'll see"
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  3. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Staff Member Super Moderator

    Be the bigger man and walk away. Who cares what a bunch of twits say on FB?
  4. TheGhost

    TheGhost Auuhhhhmm ...

    That's what you get for a) being an asshole and b) being on facebook.

    Take a step back and THINK.

    Oh, and listen to some Guns'n Roses. :D
  5. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

    Q Strange - Smack dat hoe
  6. deleted

    deleted Visitor

    that fakebook is a trifling bitch..

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  8. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear voice of sexy

    that's hot, did you take pictures?
  9. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

    Aw dang you messed up.

    Don't you know you're supposed to have a recorder on you when you call her out on this so you have info to proof that all her blackmail on the FB was an act?

    But since you've done what you've done, let the events unfold and DO NOT go back to her.

    If you're a good person, your character will shine through in time. If you let outside influences affect your self-esteem to much you come off to others as submissive and a resource to be taken advantage of; or at least that's what the alpha males and females see.

    And your ex is definately an alpha female. (I'm assuming you broke up)

    Although, to be fair I don't think you really had her heart to begin with.

    Also it'd be wise to tell YOUR friends to take the high road and let time and your personal character (and her's) fix the situation as opposed to having your friends always bring up the subject when you'd rather let the drama wind down.

    It took confidence to stand up to her, it'll take confidence continually to walk away. In the mean time perhaps there's a girl not of her clique that respects you for it somewhere on campus.
  10. xxaru

    xxaru Guru of Porn

    Agreed! Just tell her to "grow up" and don't pay her anymore attention.
  11. lily flower

    lily flower Guest

    this sounds like a situation where some maturity needs to be implemented... you would be showing maturity by walking away and not letting her immature tactics get to you. If gossip and such is spreading around school know that it will pass and sometime in the future none of it will matter at all, you will probably find a girl that suits you much better and actually respects you and treats you very well and you will be happier and more grown-up in the end. I say IGNORE her.... it shows maturity in you and will probably get to her that you are not falling for her immature tactics.
  12. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

    Delete your FB. Ignore her at school.

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