My girlfriend is a very nice person, she is very respectful and cares a lot for me but has a little temper. Sometimes she get's really mad when she wants me to come over or do something with her and I cant at that moment.I tell her that if she waits a few we will do it but she has to do it now or at the time she wants. I love this girl ALOT, we plan to marry eachother one day and im getting her a ring this october on her birthday to suprise her. I just want to know how can i tell her that she needs to stop getting those little moments when she go's off on me. Im not doing anything behind or back it's just that im a busy person and i cant always do what she wants when she wants.understand me? got advice?
Sounds to me like you need to man up a bit there bro, a lot of young women throw temper tantrums because they know its a way to get you to do what they want. Just don't give into it.
Does she have an anger control problem? Is there anything in her past that might suggest that she has coping issues? Is she just being a needy bitch? There is a difference. I'm an extremely impatient person, but I know what limits I can push with certain people. She sounds immature, but I would just check with her and make sure there isn't anything else going on besides that. I had a rage problem in the past and had to take medication for it and from what I understand many many young women are having these rage fits nowadays because of the stresses they are under and their inability to cope with them. What is her home life like? I'm not making excuses for people to treat anyone badly, I'm just trying to give a different perspective and help you understand someone that you claim to love better. I can't really tell from the info you gave, but it sounds to me that you need to at least talk to her. You need to explain how you feel about her outbursts. If you don't she will continue to walk all over you and expect you to wait on her hand and foot.
