How did your fwb become a fwb?

Were you specifically looking for a fwb? Were you just friends first? Was (s)he part of a clique / group / circle of friends? Did everyone *uck each other? In not where / how did you meet your fwb? How did it start? How / why did it end? Who initiated?

Asking .... for a friend

 

Someone I knew back in high school. Met back up after like 20 years.

 

Met on a business trip. A few drinks, lots of talk and a dance or two. She was married and I was engaged. Nothing that night but we kept in touch. A few months later we crossed paths again and it ended up in a hot makeout session. Again a couple months later and we sealed the deal. Met every couple of months for several years. Just like something new all over again. She was so hot.........I could go down on her for hours.
Another FWB was a good friend in college. Things just naturally progresed. I fell in love with her.

 

I should probably add the fact that she was married

 

Met them all online purpose of being friends with benefits.
The ones I could have had meeting in person were work place women. A no-no for me

 

She used to work for me and was kind of flirty but nothing came of it . Then I moved to another line of work and we bumped into each other one night after work accidentally and it just took off from there .

 

I never had one. My wife had several in college. We went to different colleges and agreed she needed to date others when I wasn't available. It would not have been fair to make her miss the parties and fun of college life just because I was miles away. Being a beautiful lady, she attracted a lot of potential dates. She would select the one she liked best for her fwb and date him until he got too serious. Then she would dump him and find another. This went on until we became engaged to be engaged her junior year.

 

I fucked her....

 

My first was because my wife didn't want to do anything any more. I mean nothing...no sex, no joking about sex....nothing. We had a neighbor who we were really close to for years. Me and my neighbor always kind of had a thing for each other but it was more like open flirting, skinny dipping and stuff like that. So when my wife said to find it somewhere else, she suggested our neighbor. It took a couple months and a few discussions before we became FWB's. That was good for a few years. She moved a long ways away so my current is someone I met closer to where I work. She flirted and hinted and I flat out asked what was on the menu and I found out soon after that.

 

Bill was a friend of hubby's and I knew him also. Hubby was working a lot and left me home raising our 2 daughters. I picked up our kids and Bill's 2 daughters from school everyday and Bill would Cumm to pick them up and we would have a couple beers. Bill's wife was a nurse and worked a lot. She had once told me that she didn't like sex and that Bill wanted it all the time! She said that she would be happy if he found someone to take care of his needs! Wink Wink! ❤

 

Wish my wife would do the same.

 

I was looking for a FB when I met a business woman on line. I require a complete stranger, someone who knows no one in my social circle or family. The old Craigs List personal section listed her ad. I answered and we met, no dating or anything like that, we just met for lunch. We enjoyed each other well enough we checked into a fuck and go. She was unmarried and wanted sexual attention occasionally. It ended when she took a position in another state. My next FB was a woman I became involved in a property deal with. We met through the property deal and hit it off. It progressed from there and was fun while it lasted. We eventually drifted apart as I couldn't always get away when she wanted. I haven't heard from her since our last hook up. Turned a good profit on the property deal though. Don't know if I'll ever have another. It's better I use the NSA pay for play system which is more convenient for me.

 

Could just ask them. I was hooking up with a guy and he asked if I wanted to be his girlfriend. I said no because I didn’t want a boyfriend. He then asked if we could at least be FWB and since he has a large penis, I said ok!

 

I had a friend who also worked in the same hotel I did but she was a chef. She also lived in the same apartment complex as her (I found about it through her). At one point I lived in a different area of the complex, then just downstairs from her, then finally next door with a shared balcony. She used to invite me around and cook dinner for me. We would have a few drinks and a few laughs. Neither one of us were dating and one night she asked me to "tuck her in". Obviously we fucked. She was not into forming any kind of emotional bond with me so pretty much when I was done I would exit through her kitchen to the balcony, into my kitchen. Home. Full belly, empty balls.

 

Yeah, when I was in my late 30s, a friend of mine said she had a girlfriend that needed a place to live for a while, until she could get a job and get back on her feet. She was in her mid twenties, my friend said she liked to party, since I liked to party. She told me that she would help out around my apartment doing chores. I agreed to let her stay with me rent free, until she could get a job. Anyway, she found a job and ended up living with me for almost 4 years. After about a year, we became pretty good friends and party a lot together. Then one night when she was supposed to be staying at a friend's, she showed up late and busted me watching porn and masturbating. She came home that night, because her and her friend got into a fight. I had gotten some party favors to make my alone time more enjoyable. So, I shared some stuff with her and it made us both horny. She said she wanted to have sex because it had been a little while. So we did. After that, we would have sex whenever we were bored, buzzed out, horny or just for the fun of it. We've been friends with benefits now for just over 10 years.

 

HAF, more stories please. I don't care if they're real or not.

 

My FWB is more of an on again, off again kind of situation...since she happens to be married now.

I was 40 years old at the time and very promiscuous. She was 23...a brown eyed blonde and looked like your typical pornstar. I was trying different things at the time and went through a phase in my life where was I fucking different escorts about twice a week. She was a working girl...and I contacted her at the time to set up a date...not having any idea that 15 years later I would still be meeting her for periodic rendezvous but on personal level. I went to her apartment, she opened the door and she was beyond hot! We had our time together which was pretty steamy and I left not thinking anything of it. She was just another notch in the bedpost at that time.
Several months go by and I received a private message on a forum I was a member of...and it was her. She told me that she still remembered the time we had together (it was only an hour) and she had a special spot reserved for me in her panties if I was ever interested. I was absolutely floored.
She asked me if I would buy her dinner one night and having already had sex with her once and remembering how drop dead gorgeous she was, I offered to take her out that night. She had me meet her at her home, I picked her up and we went and had a nice dinner and lots of conversation. I took her home afterwards and never left until the next morning. We dated for probably 4-5 months and then her "profession" started causing issues between us so we broke it off.

Now she's long retired from being an escort. She's married and has a couple kids now.
The interesting thing is...I won't hear from her for long periods of time...as in a year or longer. Then unexpectedly I'll get an email from an address that she's kept hidden all this time and we'll start talking again. Then we start fucking for several months at a time...and then she disappears again until the next time I get that random email. I haven't heard anything from her since last May...so who knows.

 

Recently I do have more FWB and really appreciate that since I was earlier more sexually active and now as you invest in different priorities that brings a balance into the mix and is consistent.

 

Interesting and as you must know by now, some women have a habit of going dark on you for no apparent reason, then for coming back with a vengeance of sorts....lol
They do the same on these forums and with emailing, so it must just be in their nature.

 

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