How did you discretely find a like minded parter?

Ok, been there, done that. Both partners are gone and its back to square 1. If you only deal with a limited source of social interaction and wifes getting tired of toy play. ,What do you do? Strangers/No, gay bars/No. Its easier to hit on old ladies at the senior center, which would not be acceptable to my wife.Other than that, its only the Market. Has anyone found a way?

 

I’ve tried all the different websites and apps and although Grindr works well, I have a gay friend who hooks me up all the time. He is also familiar with most of the local Grindr guys and steers me clear of the bad apples.

 

I've been lucky to find a number of sexually frustrated married men in local pubs/taverns over the years. I was always an avid pool player and could always toss a good game of darts. Most were second shifters stopping by for a few drinks, a bite to eat, and a table game or a board game and conversations start while winning or losing a buying the next round. I've always stuck with guys who are married to women, tend to be safer after some conversation. They want and need to get off sexually but are unwilling to go through all the drama of obtaining a woman. Thus, I am present to steer the conversation to an alternative option that has produced more results for me than I had ever expected. What they are in dire need of is a blowjob, it releases what needs to be released and their wife (whom they really do love) is holding back for a number of reasons so here I am with an alternative that meets his expectations (I know what I can do) provided he is willing to allow another man to suck his cock and swallow his load which is what he is really needing. 90% of the time I was able to provide what it was he was needing, and he was willing to allow me to suck his cock and swallow his built-up load. He was VERY PLEASED; I was also pleased having provided said oral service in the parking lot as he got in his car and drove home. Many time they asked for a phone number for future service which I provided. Yes, I was providing needed blowjobs to more married men in my area and loving it. I had no idea as many were also inviting other married friends in the very same situation. If you have a desire to suck cock like I do you must put forth the effort to make it happen live and in person, not through an internet app. They may or may not work, but firsthand conversation and commodity pays off far better. YES, for a period of about 10 years I was given the privilege to suck of at least 75-80 other married men and was glad I was able to do so for them. I found out early on, actually knew it that women are not out there sucking guys off in parking lots like they would wish women would, but I was and having the time of my life. Met so many great guys, most I sucked off many, many times week after week. It's a win-win situation for everyone. I love sucking cock and will do so for almost any guy after spending an hour or two in conversation knowing they need a blowjob in the worst way. Get it out my friend I'll suck you off and most likely like you've never been sucked off before. I'm good and I know it!

 

Excellent take on this. I envy you.

 

Deeply envious of your success, but I'm wondering how exactly you go from shooting pool to oral sex? What conversation path do you take? For me the transition to stepping over the edge is really daunting.

 

Allow me to share with you how one particular evening evolved. I was not "on-the-hunt" but was eager to provide if a situation arose. I was working 2nd shift at the time, so I stopped at a local pub for drinks and a bite to eat. I'd just finished my food and ordered a beer when a guy sat down next to me and ordered a beer as well. We made our initial introductions and within 20 minutes were at the pool table enjoying a game. We played three games where he took 2 out of 3 and bested me so we made our way back to the bar for another drink and the conversation went as follows.

Me: I've seen you in here a number of times, you come here a lot?
Him: Yes, I do to unwind from work before heading home.
Me: Yeah, that's why I'm here too, your married I see?
Him: Yeah, if you want to call it that.
Me: I'm sorry, did I bring up a sore subject?
Him: Kind of, we're not seeing things eye-to-eye these days.
Me: I know what you mean, my wife is holding out and it's frustrating.
Him: Yes, that's what I'm talking about man and it's getting worse.
Me: I feel you brother and jerking off gets old rather fast when you have a partner right there unwilling all the time.
Him: Tell me about it, you on the verge of picking a chick up like I am?
Me: Nah, I'm not wanting the drama or risking my marriage but if confronted it would be hard to resist.
Him: Dude, I just want a blowjob and she won't even provide that. How difficult is it to suck your man's dick from time to time?
Me: I know, it's like pulling teeth and I'm really tired of begging my wife.
Him: A guy I work with said to me "a mouth is a mouth, ever consider that"?
Me: Wow, was he suggesting allowing a guy to suck your dick?
Him: Yeah, and the longer she holds out the more willing I'm getting to consider it.

It was now that I saw an opportunity, he opened the door, no he knocked it down and I was eager to see how things end.

Me: I've heard guys give really good head.
Him: Really, have you let a guy suck you off?
Me: Yes, I have, and it was just what I needed at the time.
Him: Good for you, but I don't know any guys willing to suck my dick for me.
Me: You do now.
Him: Whoa, you telling me you suck dick?
Me: Yes, I do from time to time and would be willing to help you out tonight.

It was about now that last call was made, and the pub was emptying out. I bought the two of us a closing shot before finishing our last beers. As we make our way to the parking lot, I see only our two vehicles and two vehicles of the staff.

Me: Hey, we're the only two here other than the staff who will be inside for another hour cleaning up. Would you like a blowjob?
Him: Damn, I'd really like one, but we could get caught.
Me: Nah, we'll go behind my truck along that hedge row and never been seen.
Him: I don't know man.
Me: OK, go home and jerk off I'll see you again soon, I hope.
Him: Alright, let's go, I need one really bad.

We get behind my truck as he begins to open his pants as I assume my position on my knees in front of him. As his pants and underwear drop to his ankles out flops a nice sized cock. I grab his balls with one hand and take his cock into my mouth as his hand rests on top of my head. He gets hard rather quick as I'm slurping on his growing shaft. I hear him say, damn dude that feels good. I pause for a moment (his cock is slightly over 8 inches and hard as hell) as I look up and say: Is your size why your wife doesn't suck this thing? He laughs as I proceed to begin to deep throat this thing as he grabs the sides of my head with both hands. I sucked his cock for about 20 minutes and then he says he's going to cum, I power suck his head and 1/2 his shaft when I feel the first spurt of cum enter my mouth to then proceed to swallow his entire cock as he holds my head tight and continues to blast 5-6 more spurts of cum down my throat before releasing his grip. I slowly come up off his cock keeping a firm grip with my lips as he leans on the back of the truck. I hold the head of his cock in my mouth swirling my tongue around it to enjoy what cum is left within his softening cock. Having just swallowed his load and cleaned up any saliva from his cock he pulls his pants up and says: Dude, that was awesome. You're a good friend. I said, "I can be". As we exchanged phone numbers before parting ways. Over the next few months, I did suck him off many more times in various places.

 

Damn! Great story. I've hot a hard on after reading it. You're a lucky dude

 

[QUOTE="LowHangers, post: 9373431, I love sucking cock and will do so for almost any guy after spending an hour or two in conversation knowing they need a blowjob in the worst way. Get it out my friend I'll suck you off and most likely like you've never been sucked off before. I'm good and I know it![/Quote]
How many returned the favor? Were any curious about trying and came back for more?

 

More than I ever expected.

 

Same here!

 

Four different guys? Wow! I envy you!

 

Well I don’t know about any other part of the country but here in the north land our garages are a man’s playground, it was June 2 yrs ago when I was in my garage sitting IN my
Lawn chair listening to music when my neighbor walked up and said hey I just moved in next door and need a favor. He asked me if I had any moving straps I could loan him, no I said but if he needed a hand I would be willing to help him. After unloading his u haul we sat down for a much deserved beer and smoke. I let him know straight away that I am an early riser, if you get up early come on over, chances are I will be in the garage playing the radio and relaxing.

It was about 2 weeks later when I was in the garage sweeping up from a project the day before and it was around 4:30 am, he popped in to say hi and thanked me again for helping him out. I brought out another chair and offered him a Beer, wow it’s early but ok. As we sat there he noticed my hand rubbing my cock, itches eh, no just normally about this time I am jerking off. He smiled and said early morning was his favorite time to Jack off. Well them we certainly wouldn’t want to interrupt our schedules. I said fuck it lets Jack off and see where it goes, he had his dick out before I did, and the rest is history, I have a regular suck fuck bud and a great neighbor. True story,

 

Wanted to share this with you guys just to let you know that patients pays.
Ok, so I put an ad up on doublelist about a month ago just to try and hook up for some nsa sex. I’ve used it before with only mediocre results. Usually no shows and picture freaks. Anyway, this guy answers the ad. Says he lives in my town and is interested but needs to be discreet. (He’s married, as am I)So we email back and forth a little. I say I’m a bottom, he says he’s a top. I thought, jackpot! Then he asked for pictures. Now I don’t have a cock worth bragging about by any means. But it works and it’s all I got so I sent him the pic along with an ass pic taken by my gay buddy last time he was fuckin me. I call it my “busy ass” pic. Lol. Anyway, he gives the normal compliments about my equipment and then proceeds to send me several pics of the biggest nicest cock I’d ever seen. Now I need to describe this thing so you get an idea. In one picture, he was holding it with both fists, one on top of the other. He still had more cock above his fists than I have in total and it looked to be as big around as his wrist. Now I know it could have been an optical illusion but even if so, it’s still huge. Needless to say that got my ass tingling.
So over the next few weeks we email back and forth a few times just to see if a hook up could happen but our schedules never seemed to allow it.
Fast forward to yesterday. He emails and says we really need to get together. With my job, there is the occasional rain out where we can’t work. (Construction). So after a few minutes of the typical horny back and forth he asks where I live in our little town. (Pop. 5500) Wanting to keep my cards close to the chest, I gave him a vague description of where I’m at and he said “yeah, me too”. So I narrowed it down a bit more and he said “Damn, we must be real close cus I’m on so and so street”. I said “ wow, what house number?” He told me his house number and I about shit. He asked how far from him I was. My answer was, “Look out your living room window and the only house you’ll see is mine. Lol. The dude lives right across the street. Less than 100 yrds. Lol.
So we were talking more about how we could get together and being the smart ads that I am I said “ Just tell your wife you’re coming over to return the crescent wrench you borrowed last week”. We’ve know each other a couple years but I’m sure his next neighborly visit is gonna be exponentially more fun.
Sorry for writing a book but I’m super stoked about this.

 

Lucky you!

 

Have fun. Keep us updated on how it goes.

 

I’ll keep you guys informed.

 

Very important to take good care of your neighbor's tools.

 

That is fantastic. I personally love BIG cocks; they are a joy to suck on and work over but even more, I love them working my ass. Lucky YOU! Enjoy