I think I'm hetero all the way.. but sometimes, I wonder if maybe I am bisexual, because, for example, the thought of kissing or even French kissing another girl doesn't disgust me at all (I've done it drunk with some of my girlfriends), caressing seems alright... but I wouldn't do anything sexual aside from maybe caressing breasts. But, even though it doesn't disgust me, it doesn't turn me on either, so, I don't really know... like if I think of doing the same thing to a guy, it's gonna exite me, but it doesn't exite me with girls, it just doesn't disgust me, you know what I mean? So.. do you think I'm bisexual?
Possibly, but I define bisexuality as a sexual attraction to both genders. If you're not sexually attracted to girls then probably not. But only you can really decide for yourself.
Penny, I suspect you are totally bisexual. Fromlooking at your pictures and reading your posts. I'm bi; I can relate. You can tell if you're bi by finding a girl that you think is cute or attractive in some way, who might be bi, and kissing or something. Maybe even just spend time with them and you'll know for sure.
Most likely it's just healthy experimentation, fooling around does not make you bi or gay or anything, it's just fun. I think. But just like Dark Bowser said it's your life. Hoped that helped and blessed be!
So, "bi-curious" means you're hetero but wouldn't mind doing it with a girl, without being really bisexual or gay? Like maybe if you get really wasted or something, or if you're really close with a *special* girl? I think that's maybe how I feel..
The most accurate sounding sexuality scale I ever heard of, as far as attraction, came from watching this movie Kinsey, who was the first to do a real scientific good funded research into all of that. He made this scale, 1 as exclusively hetro in attraction, and 6 as exclusively homo... and found that most people fell in the middle. You might be a 2 or at least in between a one and a two... have you ever had any dreams that could have hinted at it? And just because most people fell in the middle, doesn't mean most were acting on those impulses. So I bet you a lot of the really anti-gay types, probably are in the middle or at least a 2, and they are really upset and in denial about it, but by becoming anti-gay activists, they get some psychological comfort. JUst a theory.
No I never dreamed I was having sex with a woman, or at least not that I can remember... it's always men, and my boyfriend most of the time. I'm not anti-gay at all though, not at all! If I was sure I was bisaexual I would have no problem with it or admiting it.. I'm just trying to understand if I am or not, cause I'm not sure..
ive only dreamed of sex wth a man like once, and i dont even think i dreamed about the actual act, but i can think of at last 3 dreams ive had about sex with a woman. i consider myslf bisexual, i havent had any sexual encounter with a woman, but i would really like to. you like who you like and we are all bi but some are more then others.