How can I meet someone?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Jimi2007, Mar 30, 2009.

  1. Jimi2007

    Jimi2007 Member

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    I really have no idea. I really just feel like going out in the world and finding love, but I honestly have no idea where to go or anything. Does anyone have any suggestions? This is very annoying, because I really want to get out there, but ultimately I'm just stuck here without a clue of how to do this.
     
  2. Slothguy

    Slothguy Member

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    Go to university/college... easiest way to meet people. Or join a local sports league or something.
     
  3. luvkinkyplay

    luvkinkyplay Member

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    Be social and go out! Yes, that means getting off the computer!
     
  4. Jimi2007

    Jimi2007 Member

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    And going where?
     
  5. Kama

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    A good start would be to just go to places that interest you anyway, and see who is there.

    FWIW, I remember being 19 and single... it was rough. I feel for you.
     
  6. ahimsa

    ahimsa Senior Member

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    Pretty much anywhere is a good place to meet someone. I'd recommend going somewhere you'd naturally go because you'll be more comfortable and apt to find like minded people.

    I make it a goal to have friendly coversation with someone everytime I wait in a line. This works great for meeting romantic partners as well as just casual acquantences. I already have a girlfriend, so I'm not into finding "the one" but I have met a work contact and a hang out buddy this way. Most people will not turn down a friendly conversation.

    Anyway, I don't think that there is one place where your soulmate is waiting. Instead, I think its an odds game. The more people you meet and make a positivce impressionon, the more likely you'll find someone compatible. Just start talking to people and getting out of the house as much as you can. Also, depending on where you live in Nevada(it can get pretty bum fuck), you might want to make it a long term goal to move somewhere that will help forward your goals.

    Cheers
     

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