I have long fantasised about having my girlfriend take me over her knee and spanking me. I've always had a fascination of having a woman spank me and the more I fantasise about it the more I want my girlfriend to spank me. What can I do to get her into the mood to give me what I truly desire?
You could just ask her to? \_(''.)_/ In all seriousness, you need to open up the lines of communication. You should be comfortable enough with your lover to ask for whatever you want. To add to that: asking her to put you over her knee might be overwhelming if she's not very open minded..maybe just start with regular spanking first.
The thing was I mentioned it to her a while ago and she quickly changed the subject as she felt uncomfortable with it. Yet it still persists with my mind.
As it turned out, that relationship ended up coming to an end last year. I am now with someone else who likes the idea of spanking me and me spanking her.
You mentioned that the relationship ended awhile back. I wish I would have found this thread sooner. I would have told you that if asking didn't work, maybe do it to her and then wait for her to get her revenge! Nothing too bad, of course. Just enough to make her mad enough to want to do it back to you. But, since you are with someone new who is into it, maybe try the revenge thing as role play. That can be HOT
As above Another way is to be more direct and wear underwear that says "Punish Me" or "Spank Me" . My OH got an extra one for being cheeky