How and why does my girlfriend never orgasm

My girlfriend told me that she has never had an orgasm. We have sex regularly and I'm able to last as long as I want, but she never seems to orgasm. I have tried rubbing her clit, oral, g-spot massage and sex. Also with the g-spot massage she gets to the stage where she feels like she needs to pee, but she says the feeling does not go away and it hurts her stomache after a while? Does anyone have any advice.

 

Perhaps 20% of females never or seldom have an orgasm - they may just be built that way, or have a low libido and don't have interest in it. That does not seem to be your girl. More likely she is built in a way that makes an orgasm difficult. But keep trying - you may find the magic key. The urge to pee is normal for G Spot massage - have her pee just before you start so she knows that is not the reason. Maybe she is getting ready to squirt. Perhaps some of her inability to orgasm is mental, and there is a block in there somewhere. She might consult a sex therapist.

 

i think that during g-spot stimulation, its normal for a girl to wanna pee. like cutted said, she may be ready to squirt. hav her pee bfr starting. also, she may hav had a bad experience when she was younger and is now worried of something which doesnt allow her to climax.

 

If the above doesn't work, then she's probably one of the girls who just can't make it to orgasm. Don't feel bad and just learn to enjoy sex anyway. I saw a survey once and a large percentage of women don't feel they need to orgasm to still enjoy sex. There is a lot more to sex than just the *bang* at the end.

 

Well women enjoy sex much more than men so I'm not surprised by the above statement.

 

I'm not easy to get orgasm and it doesn't mean I have low libido. The easier way for me is using my own fingers or vibrator. I get orgasm faster when my bf rub my stomach while I use the vibrator. There's a lot of ways of getting sex pleasure, not only penetration.

 

She is being honest with you and that is better than her faking it. I dated a woman like your girlfriend, but sex still felt good and she liked the intimacy.

 

funny how this is all males...

 

she needs to learn her own body. if she isnt touching herself and learning what she likes, how in the world are you going to know?.. she very well may feel ashamed, guilt, who knows, but dont give up on her... a vibrator,, a xanax... WINKKK

 

SO true. It is not your fault. I used to worry about this shit so much when I was younger.
Now I dont care, cause I know I am doing everything in my powers to do my job, and I never had complaints. I also like to eat her out and make her cum that way before intercourse, so its all good.

SOme women are just not sexual, and if they dont feel comfortable in their own skin, nothing is gonna make them cum. So fuck away and enjoy yourself brother!!