I believe the size doesnt matter is generally correct but of course there are exceptions. From my direct personal experience, knowledge of other's experiences and some of the gossip mill I know that it is definitely not universal. In my direct personal experience I have usually had no problem attracting female interest and beyond flirtation temporary hook ups and even longer term relationships. However I have garnered exactly zero sexual interest if someone knows I have a very tiny penis or has even heard it only through the gossip mill. Most profess that size doesnt matter and if actually in relationship either ships in the night or longer term that is much more of a truth. I doubt very much if many brag about a guy's lack of endowment when gossiping with others nor fantasize about hooking up with a guy with a tiny todger. How many would salivate over a small cock guy in porn? If they had a choice between two guys who were precise twins personalitywise and physicallywise except one of them has a very tiny cock would they choose the little one unless they themselves had an almost kinklike attraction to little ones or physical limitation problem with even average sized guys. I dont have any personal issues with my own lack of size because I have enjoyed a very prolific sex life regardless ( and have an sph fetish I developed about 2 decades ago) but I know for sure I have been off the radar for a fair few women who may otherwise have been sexually attracted to me. Not exactly a great chat up line to warn them I have a very tiny penis ( actually suggested by one of my female friends saying that they might appreciate my honesty - may be true but I havent test that theory. Not that I would use a chat up line pointing out my endowment even if I was well endowed either.
I’ve posted before about the many women I’ve been fortunate to be with enjoying large cocks but sometimes not the person who owns the cock. I’m average size but have always stayed in shape with the gym five days a week and watch my diet with no drinking or drugs or smoking. Since my late teens I’ve used my wonderful personality lol and what I’ve been told is my oral abilities and fun to be with. I’ve been passed around the moms growing up along with my well endowed friend and then similar in college and grad school and work and gym and neighborhood and a few of my wife’s friends over the years. So yes they want big no doubt but I learned from the get go that if you have a shortcoming in one area you find another positive about you to offset the other. I have an fb who is bi and divorced and know her for decades. She was with women until a few years ago when I invited her to a threesome with two of my lady friends. It became a foursome and her first comment afterwards was that she thought I would have a giant penis because of all the things my wife, friends say about me. That said we get together weekly and she has now decided I am satisfying her enough that she doesn’t need any dating drama and sees me whilst she cares for her elderly mom. So size matters but so do other things.
I am all about the other things and it is the other things that make me attractive to women ( and no it is not fame or fortune or flash harry stuff) I now have a friend with benefits long distance relationship going on and have lasting friendships with several of my exes. I recently had one of my exes who specializes in open relationships speculating about bringing into a threesome thing with her latest fling. ( her suggestion not mine but I am totally on board if she gives the green light) She wants me possibly involved precisely because of my tiny dick and our former cuck sex life. Apparently her guy is definitely well endowed and enjoys being voyed while fucking. My tiny cock is an extra boost for his 'ego kick sex fetish' and my SPH thing and former relationship with her is a perfect fit for this particular type of sexcapade.
In some situations like yours I would go for it and never turn down an encounter. I have had many encounters where the participants just wanted another body and I said yes. Don’t care if my cock was too small (I’m 6) or anything else. I did a gangbang once that is actually online and the lady did not want large cocks to fuck her anally. A few of us were chosen but the best part was I fucked her pussy, ass and a blow job and her friend too. So go for it and keep us posted!!!
Well I am definitely in the “grower” not the shower side of the equation but haven’t had any complaints. I think it’s more my own hang-up than anyone whom I have dated. I was humiliated by a group of older girls once as a kid and it’s given me a complex ever since . And Willy seems to tuck and hide as a default nervous reaction so that amplifies the issue. Nude beaches since I was about 12 has allowed me to learn to say well F$€k-it - here it is stare if ya like. For the most part it goes Un-noticed on the beach or a few women have seemed more fascinated than appalled. I have even teased a few, as it does grow from an inch to about 6 and there has been a number of women (outside of the beach scene ) that have enjoyed riding it to orgasm so it does seem to work for them. many of whom have invited me back years later after our relationship was long over. As you say it’s not just your “package size” it’s the full package you bring to the table.
My first steady girlfriend broke up with me because she was not just disatisfied with the sex she was totally embarrassed by how small my cock is. She used to lie about my penis size when gossiping with other girls about their boyfriends. The final embarrassment for her was when her younger sister boasted that her bf was way bigger than me. ( this was based on a chance crossing of paths at a sports club) Of course the comparison was based on flaccid size but my baby sized dick was way smaller than his and he was considerably younger than me. We didnt break up directly over this humiliation but she cheated on me with another guy and I pulled the plug. The other guy was her sister's now ex bf. She made a point of telling me how much better the sex was.
I suffered an extreme humiliation in my first year of high school when I was pantsed in the gym in front of a group of cheerleaders who had come in to practice while my boys class was just leaving for the changerooms. My already tiny penis tends to shrivel up in nervous situations as well. I already was aware that my penis was smaller than any of the other lads in my class ( I suspect that is why I was chosen for the prank) Admittedly much later I was definitely aroused by the idea that they had seen my penis but I was also totally embarrassed by it. It didnt help that I was a bit slower than others getiing more than peach fuzz pubic hair. I hardly grew any larger both flaccid nor erect since then so basically my cocklet is even now smaller than your average high school age guy.
