Home Sickness...

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by mudpuddle, Sep 12, 2007.

  1. mudpuddle

    mudpuddle MangaHippiePornStar Lifetime Supporter

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    If you Have Ever Had Home Sickness...How Did you Cope with it?
     
  2. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    nope. sorry. it's a totally foreign concept to me.
     
  3. Willow_Jon

    Willow_Jon Banned

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    I still do for the desert.....its will ALWAYS be home...but...i am surrounded by water now , and i have my land and grandbabies and animals to keep me busy,,,and this is THEIR home.
     
  4. LuckyStripe

    LuckyStripe Mundane.

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    No because I've moved a lot and home is where I live.......

    I miss a certain place at the beach though that was like my home even though I was only there a month or two a year..... I cope with it by..... going back there sometimes. :D
     
  5. mudpuddle

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    What About Family...And Animals?
     
  6. LuckyStripe

    LuckyStripe Mundane.

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    I wouldn't leave my animals..... tried before, didn't work.....

    Family- you can see, right?
     
  7. Willow_Jon

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    Then maybe yer not ready to leave home yet...maybe you should really re - think moving and be sure yer ready before you leave ?
     
  8. mudpuddle

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    I Do Not know How I am Going to Feel...Willow Jon...
     
  9. Willow_Jon

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    WEll...you would be wise to examine very deeply this issue....BEFORE you just hop a plane and leave home.
     
  10. mudpuddle

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    I was Simply Wondering How Other People Have Coped with Home Sickness...In Their Time...
     
  11. Lodui

    Lodui One Man Orgy

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    I suggest ginger ale.
     
  12. Willow_Jon

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    Well.....what I did when i moved from the west coast to the East was to busy making where i am now home , so to speak.....surrounding myself with those things that I love to make it feel kinda like what I had before , you know ....plants..animals....music...friends...I will always have a special place in my heart for the desert , and i will make a few trips back there before i die...and that will be enough now.
     
  13. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    i went to the gym and trained my ass off

    kinda like i'm doing now, except i dont' have home sickness anymore
     
  14. Peanuts

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    That is one of the best medicines. :) My Mom always gave it to me when I didn't feel good. Now I always have some in the house.



    I was very home sick when I moved back to Mass after graduation. My parents were in a different state. I talked to them daily, cried all the time. It was horrible. I wasn't ready to be away from them. Now we are about an hour away from each other. It's nice.

    How far away from home will you be going? Are you going to be able to visit often?
     
  15. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    I have been dealing with homesickness for the last month or so and just now sort of moving out of that phase...it's hard.

    I have been occupying my time with new friends and new experiences and welcoming and learning as much as I can. I have surrounded myself with familiar material things...like pictures, my blanket, that sort of thing.

    And just know, you can always go back :)

    Good luck!
     
  16. mudpuddle

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    I am just Trying to Prepare myself for Anything to Happen...

    I am moving to Another Country...

    Leaving behind my mother...13 Year Old Brother...my Dog I Have Had Since I was 14...

    my Five Year Old Cat and 15 Week Old Puppy...

    I will Not be Able to See them for Long Time......
     
  17. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    The thing is...we have choices...you don't HAVE to move if you don't want to...if your family is worth it...then stay!

    Weigh your options...and be happy with your choice either way!
     
  18. Peanuts

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    Have you ever been to this other country?

    Here's a suggestion. Are you in a position you can go to the other country, stay for a little while without making a perminent decision? Maybe you don't need to decide today. Maybe you need to see where you'll be, if you'll be happy, then decide.

    Does your Mom have internet access? web cam? You could communicate for free and still feel like you are together.

    Fear of the unknown is a gate holding you back. With all that you'll be missing here what will you be gaining if you move?
     
  19. Peanuts

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    Bella just moved away from her Mom and Family. She'd be a great person for you to talk to. Though she's only a few states over I think they do see each other when they can for a couple of days at a time.
     
  20. jonnydisaster5

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    have an old friend visit. dont go nowhere n eat stuff you like to eat.if not kid music n jump around n boogey n dont look outside.teen music. hot jumpy stuff.fer me thatd be u2 black sabath etc.older womyn etc.eat food u eat as kid.get sum videos of a tv show from yer country.
     
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