When I masturbate, I can hold in my cum and it comes out later when I go for a wee. I've done this for years and have never had any problems with bladder infections or anything. When I have sex, I let it out with no problems. Is there anything I should worry about by doing this or am I the only freak on here?
Totally different pipework. The bladder has nothing to do with holding seminal fluid. The nearest it comes to it is when the passing of urine rinses out the urethra. Any semen that is created by the seminal vesicles & not ejaculated through the normal course of orgasm is either released by way of nocturnal emission (wet dreams) or simply reabsorbed into the body.
It is not harmfull at all.. in fact, Tantric lore has it that seminal retention is beneficial for ones health and personal evolution. The semen is chock full of "life energy" and is used by the body to transform the cerebro/spinal system, preparing it for Kundalini awakening.
How do you stop it, pinch the head? I don't think I like the thought of that sitting in my dick tell I pee.
It doesn't sit in your dick.... What you do is contract the pubococcygeal muscle between you anus and scrotum. To keep from cummng if your close but not there quite yet, grasp your cock firmly with thumb and forefinger as far down the shaft as you can, and squeeze. If you are at the point of no return, just let it flow... and don't forget to lick it up!:sunny:
I'm not sure I'd encourage this. There is such a thing as retrograde ejaculation, and it is not a good thing.
Retrograde ejaculation is when ejaculate enters the bladder. There's a sphincter that is supposed to stop this from happening, but "holding it in" could force it that way. Repeatedly doing this could weaken that muscle and lead to problems with fertility.
Are you a physician? I have done a little reading on retrograde ejaculation, where sperm enters the bladder. Other than that particular sphincter becoming weak as has been said, there seem no be no other health risk. Fertility issues are not my concern. Anyway, that particular sphincter that keeps sperm from entering the bladder would have to fail for there to be no ejaculation. I have not experienced a loss of ejaculate. Been doing this for 15 years. Since I have been doing the pubo-coccygeal muscle contractions, (the equivalent of Koegle exercises for women) my ejaculations have gone from dribbles to shooting a couple or three streams. This practice also massages the prostate, and strengthens the urethral sphincter, which may prevent incontinence in old age. A big bonus in my opinion.
No, I'm not a physician, and you can do as you wish. But I think it's far from clear that this is healthy, and I myself would not encourage others to follow your lead.