Hi everyone some advice would be greatfull, this is gonna sound dumb so i pre warn u! Ok, i was in a 4 year commited relationship which ended in feb, myself and my partner didnt use protection and we both had trust etc. long story short, i had a stupid drunken one night stand with my ex in early Sept (with condom) he didnt come nor did i feel a rip or anything. My problem is , is that i am now with an amazing man and we are fully commited with eachother. I went for an AIDS test last week and thankfully everything was negative. Myself and my partner both decided that we dont need condoms as there is full trust there and i know his status is negative also. BUT... He knows about the one night stand and is now freaking after watching a show on AIDS (stephen fry program) that i could still be at risk for the one night stand i had even though it was protected and lasted 2 mins as i told him to stop. Is there any chance that i could actually be infected even though a condom was used and i tested negative before this? Pls advise cos i dont know what to do and he is now saying it doesn matter and he was being stupid and over scared for nothing.