So I wanted to spice up my masturbation habits and saving it up for a good moment. So right now I'm doing a 7-day pause from wanking. And starting 4 days in, I do some edging sessions where I bring myself to the PONR (point of no return) and then back off a bit, a couple of times in a session of ca10-15min, then I just put it away and resume what I was doing before. 1 session minimum per day, preferably 2. On the last day, I plan on doing at least 3 edging sessions spread out during the day. And then, I have prepared with lube and fresh bed sheets for an intense masturbation session at night. The final session is going to consist of 30min mental masturbation, which means laying down completly naked and just thinking about cumming. Then a 45 minute edging session with lube and everything, just enjoying every second I can. Lastly a 10 minute pause to look for some good material to cum to (this will be some excrutiatingly difficult minutes to keep my hands away). And then just go for it, and blow my load away! Does it sound like a good challenge? Do you have any challenges where the arousal level is extremly high for longer periods of time? It's extreeemly satisfying to blow a load after being aroused for such a long time!
That's where some skill come in! Done a similar thing before, and if you make i through all the way, it's totally worth it! And if I cum by almost not touching myself, that's a win aswell. The goal is to make it, of course, but failing isn't that bad!
one of the hardest things I found was to be in a sexually active relationship but have nothing done to you, no masturbation or sex but still take part in pleasuring your partner and also if you have any fetishes indulge in them to the max but still keeping to the guidelines of no physical pleasure for yourself.