I'm a lesbian. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years and currently, we are living in different countries, giving me more freedom to explore. I keep having dreams and desires to have sex with a man. I've never had sex with a man before, so I guess overall I am just curious? The weird thing is, I'm not really attracted to men, more repulsed by their sexuality. Has anyone else here ever experimented with the opposite sex? How was it? Any feeling of regret?
I understand exactly what your feeling....Im not really into guys other than being friends ...and making babies...those days are gone now , but..theres a part of me that will wonder sometimes if maybe with a certain guy it would be good...if maybe I didnt give it a real chance before. I think its normal to wonder sometimes !!
I'm theoretically Bisexual, but I have a strong preference to guys. Most of my life so far was spent with women, but recently in the past two years, I've gone gay almost exclusively. For me, it's interesting to meet people that 'grew up gay' and haven't had a heterosexual experience - shows you that times really are changing for the 'out' crowd. I always knew that I was bisexual, but, in my early years, I decided that since I was given a "choice", my choice would be the easier choice. However, I found out later on, it doesn't quite work that way. I still look at girls - still look at straight porn. Quite frankly, I'd even date a girl if I could find one that was bisexual and not batshit crazy.... I've come to the conclusion that what I seek is difficult to find in America. For me to be truly aroused and into it with a girl, they have to fuck my mind and my body... Guys, well, that's a different story... I take 'em as they come.... In any case, lately, I have been getting the urge to return, even for just a night, to 'Sweet Home Vagina'. If the right circumstance popped up, there's no question that I would go there. But again, stupid girls are such a sexual turn off. Easy for me to say as a formerly straight bisexual, but I truly believe that you need to experience it all. What's the worst that could happen? You don't like it? You tell the person that it's not for you?... Believe me, it's worth any awkwardness you can conjure up in your head. I always think of this: My first gay experience ever was mind-blowing. Not because it was so different, but because it was SO VERY MUCH THE SAME: It was just having sex with someone - like many times before with many different girls, only this time, it was a guy.
I feel that way about girls once in a blue moon. But I dunno, I can't imagine it could be any better than with a guy. Either way I'm a virgin
I'd say go for it. Sex is healthy, & expirementation does you good. You'll never know until you try,right? & if you end up regretting it, that's okay because we all learn from our mistakes.
I thought about doing it, mainly because I haven't done it. But as soon as I get beyond the initial "what if" level, it just doesn't seem worth the effort. I mean, with gay guys it's mostly just a matter of finding one. With a girl you've got to find one and somehow seduce her, which from what I've seen of straight boys doing it requires a lot of the kind of effort that you can only really summon up from finding someone really attractive, which I don't really. I guess I could force myself to find a chick attractive enough to do the deed, but I'd almost definitely be thinking about guys while I did it so what's the point?
i've never really had the urge. however, i have had some experiences with girls before. not really interested.
My only experience with the opposite sex was uh...a child molestor. If I hadn't already been gay before that happened, it definitely would have turned me against fucking guys. I was already disgusted by guys but that whole thing just made me hate heterosexual sex even more.
