He's A Different Person

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Collettallie20, Aug 6, 2015.

  1. Collettallie20

    Collettallie20 Members

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    lately during sex it's different and it's different in general, he doesn't communicate with me and he told me to close my eyes during sex I found that hurtful idk why, he says it's because he thought I looked cute cause I closed my eyes for a second and he told me to just keep them closed but idk if that's the case I've had a hard time trusting him and if there's anything new in sex I feel like he gets it from watching porn?
     
  2. Ashalicious

    Ashalicious Senior Member

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    Stay in school.
     
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  3. Collettallie20

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    I've graduated already
     
  4. knifeartist

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    If he's telling you to close your eyes, he's probably looking at something else while having sex and doesn't want you to see what he's looking at, like a picture or something, something else that's arousing him.
     
  5. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    Figure out why being told close your eyes is hurting you. Can't apporach the issue until you know why it bothers you.

    Closing eyes can mean a ton of things- from stop staring to relax and let go.

    If you think you're are close enough to someone to bump uglies,you should be able to, like, you know, talk.
     
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  6. Collettallie20

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    Alright we talked and it was stupid!! Haha if I told what it was its like tmi unless you wanna know I'll tell you
     
  7. knifeartist

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    I'd like to know, if you wanna say what it is
     
  8. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    young kids and their texting
     
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  9. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    Thinks his,orgasm face is silly?
    Note, they all are, on some level.
     
  10. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Do you have different colour eyes to your mom, thats probably it, he's into your mom and when you close your eyes you look more like your mom

    Not freak you out or anything

    Look on the bright side, if he got those ideas from your mom, at least he didnt get them from watching porn
     
  11. rjhangover

    rjhangover Senior Member

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    You are why I don't go to therapy.
     
  12. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    pretty sure tmi doesn't exist on this forum.
     

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