lately during sex it's different and it's different in general, he doesn't communicate with me and he told me to close my eyes during sex I found that hurtful idk why, he says it's because he thought I looked cute cause I closed my eyes for a second and he told me to just keep them closed but idk if that's the case I've had a hard time trusting him and if there's anything new in sex I feel like he gets it from watching porn?
If he's telling you to close your eyes, he's probably looking at something else while having sex and doesn't want you to see what he's looking at, like a picture or something, something else that's arousing him.
Figure out why being told close your eyes is hurting you. Can't apporach the issue until you know why it bothers you. Closing eyes can mean a ton of things- from stop staring to relax and let go. If you think you're are close enough to someone to bump uglies,you should be able to, like, you know, talk.
Alright we talked and it was stupid!! Haha if I told what it was its like tmi unless you wanna know I'll tell you
Do you have different colour eyes to your mom, thats probably it, he's into your mom and when you close your eyes you look more like your mom Not freak you out or anything Look on the bright side, if he got those ideas from your mom, at least he didnt get them from watching porn