Hi all, by now, most of you should have read my post about giving my first blowjob. Now the interesting thing is that the person who recieved it is not gay. Not even curious (so far as I know at least), but was happy to accept it. So my question is this (for all the stright people only - sorry bi and gay guys and girls), would you be happy to accept masturbation or oral sex from someone the same sex as you? No strings attached, no need to return the favour, just to sit back and let them get to work.
I have been asked that question, and i said No....I did think about it for a second, but i was on drugs...
I'm bi, so it doesn't apply to me. But I have known of one guy and a couple girls who would receive, but aren't gay. On the other end of the spectrum, I know of two gay men who would get involved with women, but no lesbians who would receive masturbation or oral from a guy.
If I wasn't obligated in any sense to reciprocate, wouldn't have to worry about future interactions or std's.... yeah, I'd receive oral from a chick (me being a straight girl and all) Women are beautiful, I'm just not sexually attracted to them. I'm also not sexually attracted to my vib, but it still gives me an awful lot of pleasure
Yes probably, though there seems little point (for me) since I'm not sexually or emotionally attracted to women really. I would rather recieve from a guy.
Sorry nope... I think it would cause me permanent mental stress till I died, but that's me. Whatever makes you happy. Btw, you sure your buddy isn't gay; just saying that your average straight guy wouldn't have crossed the line.(whatever average is)
No. I described in your other thread how I let such a thing happen a few times with a man I'm friends with, but it was really because I was being nice to him, and I'm really not crazy about it. In my mind, it falls under a mixed heading of "accommodating a friend" and "experimenting in a harmless way." But I am not keen on having another man fondle me, no. Blue skies, -Jeffrey
Well I've been down and out from time to time, and plenty of guys have hit on me over the years, and I have even given it some thought, but my answer remains a no, I will not get involved with another person unless they are from the opposite sex, same sex partners just doesn't seem right to me.
I would have to say, depending on the situation I might possibly accept either a hand job/blow job from another guy. As far as giving a blow job, I'm not too sure. I have (as a lot of guy do) fantisized about giving head to another guy. However, actually doing it is another story.
I am going to have to say no, because I think that would make me gay. If your thinking about another man, getting sucked by another man, touching another man, ok anything that has to do with another man and your a man that kind of makes you gay. One cock in a room is plenty(refering to anything sexual). I'm not condeming anyone so don't misinterpet what I'm saying. If that's your thing then rock on.
Just because they're curious about guys doesn't make them gay - there's still bicurious, or bisexual. Or, bloody hell I forget the term of it, but it's basically that you care at all the gender of the person, you just like pleasure from either (it's not bisexual, there's a special term for it. Related to the word androgyny (sp?) I think. Anyways) Besides, doing one specific action once doesn't completely alter your sexual preference. Ever accidentally wandered across some homosexual porn? Are you now homosexual? I doubt it... it boils down to a personal definition of your own sexuality.
See if it's an accident it's different. If it's done intentionally, yup that would be gay. I just don't buy the whole "bi" term.
I have to agree that if your a male and you have any sexual contact with another male then yes you definetly have gay tendencies. And those tendencies are strong if you are willing to act upon them!
Being a gay guy, and I know I'll get "bashed" for this BUT I don't believe in the "bi" thing either. The way I see it, if ya have sex with members of the same sex .. you are gay. sure you can have sex with the opposite sex but you're still gay. yep in the strictist definition of the word "bi" means having sex with both, but I don't hold to that, you're either straight or gay.
I'm sorry, but I don't believe that anyone is either 100% stright, nor 100% gay. I believe that EVERYONE is bi. Take me for example. I quite like the idea of having sex with a guy, but I don't fancy any guys, (and while this might happen in the future: ) I can't currently see myself falling for a guy. I also quite like the idea of having sex with girls. I also fancy girls (one girl specificly at the moment in fact), and can see myself falling for a girl. According to what you're saying, I'm gay right? I'm sorry, but no - calling me gay would be an insult to gay people.