Okay, first time using this so go a little easy on me lol. Basically i just started dating a friend of mine that i've known for ages. she's never fingered herself or anything along the lines of that. that being said ive been trying to finish her (with my fingers) for about 3 months now lol. (im a little experienced from past g/fs.) sadly NOTHING is working I dont know if its because shes neverrr experienced anything around her vagina or what. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Mica - are you talking about a clitoral orgasm or a G Spot orgasm? PM me and I will give you instruction.
im not to sure why but it wont let me private message you lol. but honestly, ive tried both of them atleast 10 times each and its driving me crazy. so i guess my answer is both lol.
Some women have difficulty getting an orgasm - it could be physical, or mental. Keep trying, and check out some of my posts on how to give a G Spot Orgasm. To PM you have to have an upgraded account with Hipforums.
Mica, you can't message someone until you have at least 10 posts. I'm concerned that she really doesn't know what an orgasm feels like. That's important for her to be aware of her body and what feels good. You may want to tell her that you masturbate, and invite her to watch you. After a while, invite her to touch herself. IMHO, she will have trouble cumming from you if she can't make herself cum. Does your gf get lubricated when you masturbate her? If so, that means she's getting some pleasure and is turned on by what you are doing. Plus, it's important if you want to try to give her a g-spot orgasm. Never try to insert your fingers into her without her being lubricated. It could hurt her and then she'll not be willing to do much if she associates pain with your activities. But... Once she is lubricated, and your hands are clean with well-trimmed nails, slide one finger into her very gently. This will get your finger lubricated. Once she is not uncomfortable with one finger, you can try two, again very slowly, lubricating it. Turn your hand with your palm up. Slide both fingers in and once they are in, move them like you are saying come here. You should feel a bulge at the front of her vagina. That's her g-spot. Start slowly, making the come here motion and then straight, and increase in rhythm some but don't go too fast. This will begin to feel really good to her and she may orgasm from it.
Dutch is exactly right on this.. massaging her g-spot will drive her wild.. but you also need to keep in mind some women need to have both vaginal and clitoral stimulation to "get off".. so be prepared to lick the kitty for her while your fingering her..
