I'm just finding it hard to wrap my mind around how showing concern for your friend and suggesting that you be patient and understanding with her isn't helpful. If I was in a better mood I might shed a tear from laughing too hard. Hopefully when your friend sees this thread she will at least appreciate that one more stranger cares about her well-being. You were being hostile and belittling, emotionally manipulative. You still are. Forgive me for psychoanalyzing you, but I think you've felt rejection so often that you want me to feel the way you have felt. Why you have chosen me I can only guess. But I am sorry to inform you that I am immune. Despite whatever you may have assumed, I am one of life's little rejects myself. You may ignore me; you may not. Your word's not exactly gold. But I know the game and don't expect a response. HAVE A HAPPY DAY