this girl i know were just friends we make love an all we both have a real relationship on the side but i think i realy love her and i dont know wat to say when i see her with her bf i just get so mad and i've been avioding my gf i dont know what to do
Call your girlfriend, tell her you're a lying cheater and break it off with her. If you have any respect for her as a human being at all (which I suspect you don't, since you're cheating on her in the first place) you'll want to stop this hurt.
i agree with super grrl...its best to finish with your current girl who is probably hurting bcos ur ignorin her...and also remeber karma...wht you dish out you get back...so try and do the right thing by everyone x
sky lex -- As I understand it, you and your gf have an understanding to be just friends but still make out, and also to continue your relationships with your currents bfs. It seems like your gf is following this understanding, but you have changed your mind and now you want to be more than just friends. If you want a special relationship with your gf, as opposed to being just friends, then you need to have a private conversation with her. You need to have a calm, mature communication with her. I understand your frustration, but . . . if your gf chooses to be really close to her bf, and not as close to you as you'd like, then you must decide whether you can continue your friendship with her just as it is now. If you're getting too hurt, then perhaps for now you shouldn't be so physically close to your gf. Best of luck to you.
