I just re posted this thread, because I'm really needing some others the other forum section Im 19 living alone, I have friends but I don't know why I feel lonely especially at night, and during the night all my friends are busy so I don't have anyone to talk to online or even in my phone :/ i dunno why i feel like this every night like I wanted to talk to someone maybe im depressed , i dunno can any of you guys help me out It would be great thank you
Its normal to feel lonely when you are by your self . If you can interact with others with out any problems , then I would think you were ok .
If you wanted an online site , you might check out http://www.paltalk.com/ You down load there soft ware to use there site , if wont run on Linux , so I am not there rite now .
I recommend this site, http://www.suicideforum.com/index.php. I know it says suicide forums but most the folks there are willing to talk about anything.
guess its time to make a complete change. might be walking to a new place and just putting yourself out there to meet people. it can be anywhere. find something to do at a park on a regular basis, a hobbie then as you work on what ever it might be, people will sit down next to you. then its starting the conversation, and finishing it by planning to hang out with that person sometime, maybe go to the corner of town, places where people exercise... pick up a new hobbie now. start now too because it will make your 20's easier and more enjoyable.. i think the 20's are a tough ten years.. play a song every morning that helps you, eat a nice breakfast, then get out there.. nobody can do anything for you, and when they do they usually fuck up... so we have to do everything ourselves.. and yes its a bitch..
I suppose that you could move in with room/house mates. Save some money too. Room/house mates don't always want to be buddies though. I hope that things work out soon!
Being alone is not fun at that age, it becomes security at an older age. I love to hange with just my dog!
