I need to know if one of my friends is gay b/c ever since ive known him hes done things like say he was gong to butt fuck me that i look cute along with a few other incidents over the past few months we also slept on a bed together a couple of times when we got fucked up or their was only one bed he always insists i sleep next to him and just the other night we had some xanax and a fat blunt i was laying on my bed with him in the chair and he said "wat would u do if i just shoved my cock in your mouth" and i didnt know i f he was serious or not so i said why are u gay or something and he said noa. now ive never considered myself gay but the idea of a sexual experience with my friend started to turn me on and now i dont know wat to do any replies are appreciated
Let's see: he says he's never considered himself gay, but he asks you what you would do if he shoved his cock in your mouth. Yeah, right! The best answer to that question would probably be something like "The same thing you'd do if I shoved my cock in your mouth."
he could be bi/gay, or he could be just joking around. Next time the situation comes up, turn the question around on him, like sage said.
It sounds like your fiend is looking for a bitch. I don't care if he's straight, bi or gay, I don't like friends like that. I agree with SageDreamer's apt reply. .
or you could give him one of two responses "anything you stick in my mouth you'll lose" or "you know I can suck a golf ball through 50ft of garden hose" then check out his reaction.
im sorry if i didnt clarify hes never said anything like this in a serious manner its always just been jokes but he just seems to get a little excessive sometimes and i dont know if he really is joking or not i just wish i could tell somehowor maybe i should just be upfront and ask him about it directly i dont know?
well, all gay people are alike and all people that tell jokes too often are actually serious, and the two often go together, so i'd say there is no chance in hell he's straight. seriously, how could anyone answer this for you?
I sort of agree with nesta. When a "straight" boy jokes about these things so often, there is clearly something on his mind. He is either gay himself, or worried that you might be gay. You take it from there.
Sounds like to me that he is very curious and maybe a bit scared to come right out and ask you if you want to do anything with him. He may not have ever done anything with a guy before and feels very comfortable with you but just not comfortable enough to come right out and ask you. His hints is his way to let you know he is interested in you. Next time he passes comments sexwise don't turn them negative by saying "gross" or "I would'nt do that", instead say something good like if he said again "what would you do if I stuck my cock in your mouth" come back to him saying something like "I wouldn't care" or "Kewl, okay". If he comes back to you with a negative remark like, "Are you gay dude?" say, "hey, you keep asking me the questions, I am just answering them". This way you let him know you would be interested, also you relieve him of the pressure and you guys get to go further with the conversation. Being negative about a question will kill the conversation about it immediately. If you show that you are playing the role with him the conversation willl go further on the good side. My main suggestion and advice is don't be negative towards anything he says. Say things that will have you guys talking about it more and more. He obviously feels very comfortable with you and if u did not feel comfortable with him you would not be asking us for advice. Just let it ride the next time you are with him. Good Luck Edited: (PS-Just realized this thread is old. Sorry! But the advice should still be good-Any update on what has happened since then?)
Nah, I've met straight guys who play little games of "who can act gayest?" where they act progressively gay with each other til one of them gets grossed out. It's oneupmanship, nothing more. Not saying this guy's necessarily doing that, but it sounds like it. If he's actually gay, he has a shit chat-up technique.
My advice: figure out if this is something you want to do first, don't worry about what he wants untill you answer the question for yourself. If it is something you want to do, you might considor tracking down some one less threatening to do it with. But if is him you want, follow the previous posters advice and use humor to feel him out
Nah. If he wants a cock shoved in his mouth he's gay. When a guy receives oral sex, it's not because he loves or is even attracted to the person giving it; it's because he wants to put his dick somewhere warm and wet. That's all.
