I am now with a lovely woman since July '10. I was married and monogamous for 24 years prior. With my ex wife, while having sex in the missionary position, her legs would be spread and flat on the bed. It wasn't a problem. Now, with my new Love, if she lays her legs flat, it's hard for me to penetrate and have movement... like there's not enough room for my pelvis between her legs. She's a small woman with wide hips. She lifts her legs up with bent knees which works fine but her legs get tired. Why is it that we can't do much with her legs flat on the bed? Any suggestions here on this position? We like to love slowly and take our time without getting exhausted.
Try a different position? There are a couple that are pretty close to the missionary, but may work just as well for you. If you are only interested in the missionary position, there are a couple of things you can try, and maybe you already have. One is putting a pillow underneath her ass. It lifts her up just a bit and gives you a different angle and a little extra room for your hips. It might make a difference. As for her legs, try having her drape them over your shoulders if she can. That will also have an effect on the angle of penetration as well. If she can't manage that, then with her legs spread and knees raised, put your arms in the bend of her knees. She can drape her her legs over your arms, resting them. It should cut down on her leg fatigue. Good Luck.
Yeah, what? Can't she wrap her legs around your hips/waist? It will give her more leverage and it's less tiring than holding them up herself and usually gives you a better angle too. That's how I do missionary... I couldn't see doing it with my legs flat
put one of your hands under her bum - makes for a little bit lift for better penetration and also you get to hold her bum (nice!) and if she likes it you can either rim her or penetrate her anus with a finger or two if she likes it. Simon :sunny:
My current wife doesn't even like the missionary position. Just figure out which position she likes the best, and fuck her brains out that way. If you insist on doing it just one way, you may never get anywhere. I really like the missionary position, but my wife doesn't. Just the way it is. Also, I really love the doggy position (haha, see my sig) but it doesn't work with my current wife because of the way we're both built. Everybody's different. Oh, btw, my wife's favorite position is with her on top, in case you were wondering.
Please see my comment in "I invented two new sex positions". It may help because it does really work.
