Any way I'm new here so I got a bit of problem, thought you guy could help me. So I broke up with my girlfriend and started having a whole bunch of drunk, druged and unprotected sex. That got me genetal herpes, noticed it seven months ago and lets say nows the first time I actualy thought about it and how to live with it. If you have it too or you know a close friend that had it. How long did it take you or your friend to get rid of it? Dose it come back after that? If your marryed and had herpes before you met your current girl/wife. How did you tell her? Did you tell here or did it not reappear at all so there was no need? I been thinking about this alot and its starting to get too me, so I need to discussit with people how had it and live with it. Btw you dont have to tell me to not sleep with girl and stuff, I know it can cause alot of problem especialy to girl, and since i found out i had i stoped having sex, until i get rid of it and decide how to act after that. Btw sorry for the english, im a bit bad at it
Thanks, thats like really helpful and comforting.. I know its life long but can you infect some one if you have no rash at that moment. Like normal herpes, you can kiss some one and she wont get it, but if the rash is there they are going to get it if there not immune. Hope you get it, its kind hard to explane what i what to say on english
Whatever variety of herpes simplex you have, and wherever you have it, there's more and less aggressive strains, and some people are more or less sensitive. Something like half the human population has some type of the virus somewhere, and most people just don't know it. Be upfront about it, but if you are not having an outbreak and are not feeling one come on, you shouldn't be contagious. I have cold sores - about one outbreak a year, which usually seems to be brought on by overly dry conditions and/or petrochemical splash/exposure. I'm aware of it, but most people wouldn't even realize what it is if they had the level of symptoms I have. If you're lucky you might never see it, or might not for years on end. Yeah, it's forever, and yeah, the sores hurt - but as long as you're even moderately responsible (which sounds like it might be an issue for you), there's no reason you should pass it on or have a dramatically worse life. That said, if someone gave me genital herpes, I'd pick up a gallon of gas on my way over to their place. If you choose to have sex with someone who doesn't know while you even might be contagious, you're a shit person.
According to traditional chinese medicine, herpes is a damp heat condition. Alcohol, drugs, sugar, coffee, chocolate, shrimp, mustard greens, trout, and nuts should be avoided. Stress and frequent ejaculation should also be avoided. Pepermint may be helpful during an outbreak. You may want to get acupuncture and chinese herbal medicine. According to what I have read, while chinese medicine can not cure herpes, you may be able to put it into permanent remission. Good luck.
never leave your house without condoms. never leave your house without condoms. never leave your house without condoms.
When my wife was dating a guy gave her her herpies on purpose. I would have killed the guy. Having said that U must disclose this info to any girl BEFORE u have sex. Having also said that I have been having unprotected hard sex with her for 20 years and have never caught it. She rarely breaks out and if she does its on her ass and due to high stress.
