help, should i be worried?

this is mainly for aireal or any other people with strong intuition/psychic abilities. it's kind of a long story, but in short, my friend's (now)ex-boyfriend claims to have all sorts of powers. he summons spirits (not good ones) and does a LOT of dark magic. i have a certain belief in his power, but he is also a compulsive liar, so some of the things he says are hard to take. he has a strong dislike for me (i think he always has..) and apparently he has placed various hexes on me/done a ritual to stop me from astral projecting. i found all of this out last night and though it actually happened a while ago i'm fairly concerned. can you see if he did successfully place any hexes on me, or prevent me from astral travelling? he told my friend a long story about the ritual they performed on my higher self, hanging me up etc. it all sounded too fantastic to be true, but i never know with him.

anyway, i am pretty concerned about this, if he has the power her lays claim to. i have never seen him prove anything, but i believe his intent is strong and malicious enough to harm to some degree. should i be as worried as i am? and if he has done what he said he did, how do i remove the hex or counteract his negative energy?

sorry for the long winded post but i'm just a little frightened right now.

 

Um, no offense, but...

REALITY CHECK!!!

 

hey man, i know people only have as much power as you give them, but i'm a fairly sensitive person and other peoples' actions effect me a lot, whether reality or just suggestive. if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all...

 

*shrugs shoulders*

just trying to help.

 

i appreciate your efforts but referring to my concern in a demeaning way wasn't all that helpful.

 

When you go deep enough or high enough the power lays not in what others try to do, but in the power we choose to percieve their actions from.

Hi Psyche

You are right in that we are the deciding factor in how we recieve a power that is directed toward us. Look at prisoner' s of war who used the most terrable of circumstances and transformed the intent and energy into a positive place finding peace inside.

You are your transformation. So yes be aware of his intent and, do not be where the energy or fears are being created.

He gets his supposed "power" from those willing to add to his negitive energy. But you do not need to recieve his intent the way he ment it to be.

I remeber someone once telling me they were going tom send black magic my way. I smiled and replied that I could use all the help I could get and a little balance never hurt anybody. I never heard from them again.

The bottom line is as long as you help feed the fears and doubts you will add to his energy. Change the energy into a positve place and there is no fear. You are in charge of your reactions..you are not in charge of his actions.

 

why don't you try meditating or saying a little chant to send the negative energy and thoughts back to the source. like a mirror sending the reflection right back. sometimes I say a little rhyme, to the evil source of pain send it back from whence it came. then maybe the bastard will get what he deserves, a taste of his own bullshit. don't let the jerk get to you.

 

I do not sense anything other than a guy trying to gather attention. This magic you have spoken of has to be evoked from within the person first. He would not risk limiting himself in the astral for the sake of chaining you. I do sense however that your very own Self is preventing your self from going into a space that may be dangerous, at this time, for you to venture. Hexes and black magic infect the user first. Your words, as well as anothers, are spells that cast the vibration of intent. Make sure you have said "He can not effect me, has never effected me and will never effect me." more times... to both yourself and others than you have said anything negative... like he dislikes me or he feels this way about me. Do not add support to that which you do not wish to grow by your own energy. Visualize gold, not white light, around you... this is much harder to penetrate. Read uplifting spiritual works.... surround yourself with what you really love. Place your attention on that which empowers you. Counteract the negative with acts of selfless service and kindness. Give lots of hugs. Be very careful with sexual energy and make sure all that you do is sacred and beautiful.

Bright Blessings ~*

 

First of all, don't be frightened. When you realize that you ARE your higher self, then ex-boy has no power to harm you.

The best response to fear is courage, truth and wisdom. You know the power of these "things," they are what inspired you to start this thread.

The truth is, Ex-boy's "power" is nothing more than a clumsy manipulation of fear. . . fear is not really power. Fear is always a mere shadow of something else, it may motivate, temporarily, but it has no creative power of its own.

Now, recognize this, ex-boy fears you. He probably isn't conscious of this (he is not yet conscious of quite a few things) but, on some level, he recognizes that you have some power that he doesn't. Otherwise, he wouldn't bother to try to control you. Ask him why he is afraid of you. Let him know that he has nothing to fear from you, that there are many good things that are far more powerful than fear (curiosity, courage, truth, love, compassion, wisdom, even humor, just to name a few).

Let him know that as long as he insists on relating to reality through a illusory veil of fear and hatred and manipulation, he will remain ignorant of "real" power, he will remain powerless.

And, please, be compassionate enough to remind him of one of the cardinal rules of spellcraft - any action he does with the intent to harm will return to him threefold. He is hurting himself far more than anyone else.

Please, let me know if this helps.

Peace and Love