Okay, this has been driving me insane. I'm young, to the contrary of the average american male very healthy. Albeit, a little thin. At 5'11, I weight in at only 120. I'm very active and quite intelligent, considered handsome and all of that droll. Long, curly brown hair, ecetera. My problem is with my current girlfriend. We're both very sexually active, almost any amount of time we can spend together is spent in some kind of activity RELATING to sex. Kissing, touching, ecetera. When me and her have sex, it generally lasts for a great period of time. Three, four hours at max, an hour or two at least. She's never complained, says I do fine, and I didn't take her virginity, to the contrary again she took mine. She's a bit older then I am, about six years, and has been around the block a bit more. Says I do fine, last twice as long as her previous boyfriend, and the same size down below or bigger. When we actually DO get to intercourse, it normally takes me fifty minutes to an hour and a half to have an orgasm myself. During all of this, she never has one. I'm not inattentive, I give her oral, and she gets off. I'll use my fingers, and she gets off. Every time I have ONE orgasm through sex, she has two or three from other means. She says she loves sex with me, that I'm the only one making it a problem, but it makes me feel so horrible that she can't come during actual sex. After I come, I pull out and use my fingers to make sure she gets off AGAIN. She says it's just the way her body works, and I'm at my wit's end! Is it me? Is there something wrong? She says I turn her on more then I'd know. But it doesnt' seem that way because it makes me feel so bad that she doesn't come when I do! Someone PLEASE offer me a little advice or encouragement or SOMETHING. Thank you for your time, sincerly, Tai.