My girlfriend and I have been going out for a couple of months now we are both still in highschool. We have been taking it quite slow and havnt done anything really sexual, as far as we have got is 2nd base. Lately we have wanted to take it further and I have been rubbing my hand up against her vag but over her clothes wish she says she loves and I really want to finger her or eat her out and I think she might want it too but I have no idea if I should go straight out and finger her when we are hooking up when it feels right or if I should confront and ask her. I've also heard it can be really uncomfortable for virgins and can get messy :/ my main question is how do i make it comfortable and as enjoyable for her as possible? Ive also heard girls prefer to get oral but how do I tell her or show her that I want to instead of just going ahead and doing it? Any advice on how to go about fingering her or going down on her? Any support would be much much appreciated.
Slow down enjoy this time... once you crack that nut you cant uncrack it...i know it sounds like bullshit now but you will miss the "hunt" later.. ill leave you with one of my fav quotes...."If you know the Way broadly you will see it in everything." Miyamoto Musashi
