Im having problems during sex and wondering if someone could help me. Me and my partner enjoy having sex but its becoming a bit boring now so was wondering if someone could have any tips in to spicing it up. Its the usual we do which is missionary. My partner is a bit heavier then me, could this be a problem. Also while having sex when things are about to kick off, like when she is saying 'harder harder' i cum and go soft, which really pisses me off sometimes i just last 5 mins. I want to do doggystyle but dont knw how to, since im new to it. Also can someone please recommend positions which are easy and have diagrams. Also i want to hit my gals g-spot, how do i do that? Thanks if anyone can give me an more detailed answer that will be great! sorry to sound like an plonker its just i want to f*k her brains out for a change!!! lol
Doggy style? Get behind your partner when she's on her hands and knees and insert your member into her vagina. Make sure you find the right hole or she might get pissed, especially if you try to insert hard. So maybe find it with your fingers and guide your dick inside. There's really not much to it. And I agree with the above answer, find a karma sutra book. There's a lot of different positions out there besides missionary, girl on top, and doggy style. Get creative. Peace and love
Mike - check out my 10 techniques to retard premature ejaculation in the Sexual Health Forum of Love and Sex. There are many "how to" manuals re sexual positions, with diagrams which you can access on the internet. Just Google "sexual intercourse positions". There are many variations of doggy style - standing up, lying down, etc. It is better if you have a longer penis for deep penetration doggy style, especially with a heavier woman. It is difficult to reach the g spot except with a sharply upward angled erect penis missionary, or a downward curved penis doggie. PM me for personal instruction on how to do it manually.
have you tried alot of foreplay before you even enter her??? take your time and go down on her.......take your time.......many girls just Love it and orgasm this way. Then she can have already have orgasmed before you even get started. Also, i found the longer i wait to enter.......while being hard......the longer it will take for me to cum. Foreplay works good from both partners. Hope this helps!
I agree that you should get your partner to orgasm before having sex. That helps her orgasm during sex and multiple times. Sometimes I have difficulty reaching orgasm from sex only, so my fiance makes sure I orgasm before sex begins. I don't know how to describe it, but it's kind of like starting up a car when it's really cold and expecting it to perform,and cars work better when the engine is warm and ready during the winter... does this make any sense? No foreplay is like driving the car when its cold, which normally doesn't reach peak performance very well. Foreplay is like warming up the engine in a car, which will improve performance (sexually!) Peace and love
