Help! My wife is on a date right now

As the title says, my wife just went on her first date with another man since we've been together. We have played with a friend of mine a couple of times in the past, but she is out for the night without me.

I feel like I'm going to explode from the anticipation, I'm so jittery not knowing what they (his name is A.J.) are doing right now. And what about now? Or now? I can't stop (it's part of the thrill of course), and I need to talk about it. However nobody in our life knows about this aspect of our marriage yet, so I'm stuck at home with our son (18 months), and no one to work through this with.

Does any one have any suggestions to get through this evening? I will see her tomorrow morning, but it's only been an hour since he picked her up, and I'm dying (in a good way, such a good way, lol).

 

Masturbate?

 

Uh, yeah. That's a given, I think lol. I don't think it's going to help much though. I just need to talk about it, and no one to talk to. So I turn to old faithful, the internet.

 

have you thought about writing a blog on this site documenting all your feelings and experiences with this? i'm sure many folks here would be interested in reading it.

 

tell your son about it.

 

why marry someone that you would lend out?who's idea was this?

 

It was obviously both their ideas

 

I dont even know where my wife is..

 

I want one that has her own place to live too

just come to visit some times

 

hehe. I just got off the phone with wifey.. yes, its nice.. Ill see her tomorrow..

 

gtfihn...gtfo


it doesnt get much better than that lol

 

So how did it go? My sweetie is on a first date right now, and I expect they will have a hot time together.

 

What? I'm confused.

Ima a bear.... hear me roar!

My first meaningless random post of the day.. Hooray! :mickey:

 

well now, I was in exactly the same position as you last Wednesday. First time for us that she saw him on her own, previously we played as a three. And back the next day - enjoyed and was fucked and we had several sessions the nextfew days. Giving each other some freedom has really improved our marriage and sex-life.

My kids are teenagers - I just watched a film. Try porn and jack-off....?

Good luck - it'll be good when she gets back

Simon :sunny:

 

So I finally got back home this morning. I met her at the hotel just after A.J. left (I actually saw his car as he drove out of the parking lot) and she was really messed up. She told me all about it slowly throughout the day as we sort of recreated the good bits of their experience. She had been texting me throughout the night with little snippets as circumstances allowed, so we spent some time matching up her texts with her narrative ('oh, when I sent you that one, he had just done this', or 'when I sent you that one, he was actually still doing this'). The best example was this text she sent me at 12:45am, I will quote it verbatim:
"WOW. OH MY GOD. INCREDIBLE! nap time now don't text till later"
When she got to this part in her narrative, she said that she had just had one of those rare multiple orgasms where it doesn't actually stop, it just keeps coming in waves, and that while SHE was done at that point, HE wasn't, so she was actually being gently fucked while typing that text! She said she had to keep deleting and retyping because of all the spelling mistakes! When I (finally) got that text, I almost came in my pants at home, but the next morning when she told me she was still being fucked while typing it, well let's just say I couldn't control myself.
She showed me everything they did (there wasn't much they didn't do, it was more than I expected) and everywhere they did it in the room. We spent the whole day and night in the same room recreating her fun with A.J. This was the most incredible two days of my life, and I'm sure there will be more.
Just thought I should give you all an update!

 

I love a happy ending to stories like that.

 

Very happy ending, thank you A.J.!

 

Id be fucking pissed. But I wouldnt ever let my wife do that anyway so if u both agree to it then we're different kinds of people. Man, that just seems fucked up to me.

 

Recognising and respecting your partner as their own person, and not as your possession, can make a huge difference in a relationship.

You need boundaries and clear understanding that you are the primary relationship - it is the same in any open marriage.

Simon

 

Its not seeing her as a possession. Its seeing her as your wife and trusting her not to be with anyone else sexually because you both agreed to not do it when you got married. But like I said, if they choose to do it then its their deal. Im just saying I wouldnt.