HELP! My sex life is boring!

She doesn't love you and you have to come to terms with that.
Seem excessive?
Reverse the roles.
Simply ask yourself this.
If the roles were reversed and you completely lost your sex drive but she, the person you are supposed to love most in the world hadn't and was left feeling crushed and worthless because you were constantly rebuffing her, how little would you have to care for her to not be willing to at least give her loving hand relief, maybe once a week?
Bare in mind it may involve 30 minutes foreplay that she may need, but you love her right? Wouldn't you do it? Of course you would.
But now we're talking about you, a horny red blooded male, you most likely would only be asking for 5 minutes of attention.
So ask yourself this, how little does she have to care for you to not be willing to do this?
Sorry mate but you need to get real.
She may like you, you may really click, you may be the closest person in her life, but she shows by her actions that she doesn't love you.