Help *me* find a straight man :P

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by Maanling, Apr 11, 2007.

  1. Maanling

    Maanling Member

    Yes, it seems that I am making a habit of falling for gay men. And it annoys me to death. I have got a lot of gay friends, and I love them all. But everytime I like a guy, he turns out to be gay.. am I cursed? Can anyone help me? :tongue:
     
  2. Samhain

    Samhain Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    what your saying doesn't make much sense, aren't you wanting help falling in love with a gay man?
    S
     
  3. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

    Joehoe, hier ben ik al!
     
  4. mitten_kitten

    mitten_kitten daisymae

    Not if she's a 16 year old straight girl. I am thinking that this is the wrong forum for meeting straight guys....AND that she shouldn't be trying to meet men on the internet.
     
  5. Samhain

    Samhain Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    Oh I see, I think shes just looking for advice, mine would be to enjoy her teenage years and wait till shes a bit older before she settles down
    S
     
  6. *Andy*

    *Andy* Senior Member

    This is quite odd. I know someone with the exact same problem! I will talk to that person and see what she says.
     
  7. Freekowtski

    Freekowtski Member

    Enjoy your teenage life, Maanling. That's my advice.
     
  8. *Andy*

    *Andy* Senior Member

    What is that supposed to mean??? People say it, but it is completely empty comment. Enjoying being a teenager includes having someone else to love. Please stop saying it - it means nothing and it doesn't help this person at all.
     
  9. Maanling

    Maanling Member

    Ah, I'm not trying to meet men at all.. :p I have experiences with that.. meeting men on the internet and stuff.. been there, done that.. :p
    just wanted to know if you had tips :tongue:
     
  10. Freekowtski

    Freekowtski Member

    Yeah, quite right. But, after that, there come the big problems and preoccupations. That is what I was trying to say. It's good to fall in love when teenager, and I stand up for it. But teenage life is for having fun and preparing your future than being preoccupied with Love terms. I'm not negative, just I'm giving my opinion, whether it is empty or not for you.
     
  11. Samhain

    Samhain Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    I agree with you
    S
     
  12. LJDV

    LJDV Member

    It might be really straightforward, but you could just ask them about their sexuality if you start having those feelings for them. Hopefully by that time you know them well enough that it won't be awkward.

    You could also look for mannerisms of a gay man...Sounds really stereotypical, but it might help.
     

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