so i met this chick on a dating site. people meet on there for friendship too, but it's primarily set up as a dating site. anyways. we exchanged maybe 6 messages. short little notes, mostly about what are good things to do in this area, because she's new. well, so am i, so we talked about that a bit. then she asked if i wanted to meet up for coffee. i said yes, and gave her my number. she called, but i was too chicken to answer. so i called back, left a message, and then we arranged when to meet on IM. so yesterday we met for coffee. she showed up looking really really cute. casual, but super cute. like she tried to look cute, but in a casual way. she gave me a hug when she came in. we talked for like, a little over an hour, have a lot in common, sometimes the conversation flowed really smoothly, sometimes it got a little awkward... in part because i was so fucking nervous i thought i was going to have a heart attack or projectile vomit. or both at the same time. anyways. she slipped in a couple of really sweet, amazing compliments to me. but i was so fucking nervous my brain shut off, and i was having a hard time complimenting her back. my feeling is that she was trying to see if i thought it was a date or just friends. and i probably gave her the wrong impression. when it was time to leave, i kind of botched that up (i had to work) and jetted a little more quickly than i should have, because i was so nervous and just wanted to be able to breathe again. but i sent her a message saying i had a really great time and that if i acted weird it's because i'm such a dork that i got nervous about meeting her. so what do you guys think? was it a preliminary date? or does she just want to be friends?