hey, i just got a new b/f and he is soooo different than all the others, i think he might be the one. i dont know how to get even closer to him, i want to hold his hand and hug him and i think he does too but how do i let him know i want to? oh, and his friends are soooo gross, and he doesnt like mine, how do i sit with him at lunch but still see my friends? i thought of every other day but i wanna see him more!! heLp me please!! i need advice! advice from guys is good as well as some from girls!! thank you
Hey, i remember when i was 13 and went through a phase of going out with girls a grade or two above me. First of all let me start off by saying that I can assure you he is NOT the one.... trust me on this one. you're so young, and you probably havent even really figured out what you want in a guy. Well yea, i remember it being kinda hard to make moves to do things like that, but I'm sure that he wants to hold your hand and hug you just as much as you want to. Sometimes you gotta just be brave and do it, and just think about how much you like him and if he likes you back everything will go just great. As for the friends situation, it takes some sacrificing if that is the case in a relationship, so sacrifice some time with your friends to hang out with just him, and talk to him about doing the same with his friends. K, I hope this helps! good luck
DBCF gives you good advice, mysti. Remember that young guys can be shy or hesitant, and in this day & age, girls can take the initiative just as well as guys can . . . so YOU hold HIS hand. You sit beside him at lunch. Things will be okay -- just different!! Good luck.
Awww babe, hes not the one, at least not forever, but thats okay hes definitley Mr Right Now! Maybe when you two are 'alone'... like on a date type thing, hanging out on the weekend maybe you could you know... put your hand on his... that way you dont have to feel like a goof and say "Please hold my hand" If you hate his friends... well... at least... give them a go... they probanbly arent as bad as you think. I think at any age, you're best to be neutral on the subject of friends... most people, in the end will choose their mates.
