I love to eat pussy, but this young lady told me she’s not a big fan of having her clit licked. Me however that’s what I do. What alternative do I have? I’ve been told I’m a great pussy eater. Someone’ please help me out! I really want to impress her!
There is no woman alive that doesn't enjoy her clit licked. I think she's probably just never had it done properly - perhaps she is just self conscious....or embarrassed to show it to you up close yet. Get a few drinks into her, get her motor going...finger her a little, keep it slow and passionate.....if she resists your tongue and just wants you in, then do it...for a while... spin her wheels a bit, pull out and then go down on her for the win. Then you finish off with her round two...
I will. You were right I don’t think anyone has done it correctly. I’m going to ask her how she wants it done and go from there.
Well, we're not mind readers. We don't know what feels best or what they like unless they say so....there's no common wiring between models...
To be perfectly honest I think this is a question best answered by the ladies. Because every woman is different.
I agree with previous posts that women are best suited to share their thoughts. That said I will say that having performed oral pleasures on countless women for decades I can tell you that I have never met someone who didn’t enjoy it if performed to their satisfaction. I am of average length but can tell you that women talk amongst themselves about big cocks as much as men who perform cunnilingus well. I have had many women who have told their friends about me who actually call me and refer me as I’m sure many on these boards can attest. Most are not looking for long term but sexual satisfaction which I look forward to providing.
Simple converse as your kissing her labia with slow finger insertion and tongue fuck a bit. Let her say what she likes best. Could be she is ultra sensitive which is uncomfortable. Best of luck!
I have been holding back on commenting. I would clarify that with the addition of 'provided he does it well'. I've quite a bit of experience. My first GF seemed to be too sensitive. She hadn't had sex much back then and neither had I. I licked her clit and after a very short time, it was too much for her. I couldn't understand how I could lick it any more gently. So I focused on the area around it and he labia. Much better for her though she didn't cum with just that and preferred to hop on top and grind herself on my pubic bone, with my cock outside. That's OK. She could relax and have her orgasm with almost no risk of pregnancy because I wasn't in her and my cock wasn't touching her. Even precum wasn't going to get inside her. And then she let me fuck her without condom. I know, she could've got pregnant which wouldn't have been the end of the world but, to give her a better orgasm, the concern of pregnancy being removed enabled her to get there. So, that was what we did for a while, because she was 'too sensitive' to receive oral on her clitoris. Fast forward a few months and I was with a new GF. For some reason, I licked her differently. No idea why but I wasn't actually thinking about how I was doing it. Maybe I was more relaxed from the times with the previous girl or something, I don't know. She loved it. I kept doing it at any time we could and she was as keen to initiate sex and oral, as much as I was. After some times, I realised what I was doing differently. I was not just using the tip of my tongue. Instead of tip-toeing about, with the tip, I was fully immersed in the process and not only was all of my tongue licking her clit and all around it and inside, I was using the flat of my tongue when I was stroking her clit. Y'know, the middle part where tongue piercings are done. A while afterwards, I met up with the previous girl and we had sex. I went down on her and she enjoyed it from the beginning, such that she let out some pleasurable moans. After much pleasure for us both, she had her orgasm. Her first word afterwards was faaaaaaak that was amazing. lol We chatted and said the sensations were so different from before. We did it again. I inserted a finger too and pressed upwards on the front wall of her vagina, where the skin feels slightly rougher. Like a textured area and whatever about other women, hers was about the size of a thumb-print. That led to her having a convulsive orgasm with quite a lot of spasms. From then on, those whom I have gone down on have made complimentary comments some adding that they wanted me to do it again, 'now'. So to answer the OPs question, or to offer some bit of guidance, just relax. Relax your tongue as well and use a different part of it, not the tip. Take your time, the longer she is aroused without actually cumming, the better her orgasm will be when she does cum. Not necessarily visually or audibly bigger but for her, more fulfilling. Well, that's what I've been told by those who kept asking me to do it. Also, a general comment, not directed specifically at the OP; It's important to enjoy playing with her, giving her as much pleasure as you can, and definitely not thinking about your own pleasure. That should happen later, after she has had a few orgasms, as many as she wants. They've always reciprocated saying 'it's your turn now' or 'let me do you'. or words to similar effect. hth
If you are soo good at eating pussy, you know that the labia gets really sensitive, so you know that kissing and nibbling the labia feels great to women.
I've encountered several that were the same, persistence paid off and once they realized it could be amazing they couldn't get enough
We’ve been speaking since, as it turns out she dealing with mental health issues. She can change her mind, I don’t think I want it now. I’m glad it didn’t happen!
