ok im sorta in love with this girl it took me about a whole year to get with her we went out for 10months then she broke up with me because of her family didnt want her being with me. so then after that she push me away then i push her away and said i didnt want anything to do with her 2 times already. she keeps comming back claiming that she wants to be just friends and not be with me. but when we go out she hangs on me like were a couple. and she always talking about getting married and having kids in the future and stuff by i dont pay any mind to it because she seems confused as hell but then want to go out on dates with other guys and then come back to my place and spend the rest on the nite with me can someone lead me in the right direction
yep, i'de say that she is confused! and alittle scared. she loves you, but she wants you to think that your not the ending to the world to her if you reject her. All you need to do is talk to her; communication is key in these types of situations.
but this women like puts a guard up so she doesnt even want to communicate at all or even get in a covosation about us all i know when i say i leaving to go to another state she looks like shes going to cry she says she doesnt have any feelings for me but i see them all the time. plus she calls me at least 3 or 4 times a day when she at work
Does this girl have issues in her past? With family? Other guys? Does she have a reason to be closed off? She sounds so much like me. Honestly, I have a hard time letting guys in because of past issues I've had with others. And it seems the sweetest guy always suffers because he's the one who sticks around during the drama. As far as me, I am often confused about what I want, too. How old is this girl? Some people are ready for commitment before others. I don't doubt her feelings for you, either. I think the issue is that she is sooo scared that she can't take the step to be with you. The real question is, I think, how long are you willing to wait? I've had guys cut me off because of indecision. And it's painful, but I can't blame them.
after 10 months she pulls the family excuse out of her ass? hmm, they wouldve voiced their disagreements earlier, it sounds like she was just using it as an excuse if you ask me. there are some crazy famillies out ther ebut usually tehy stop the dating within a month or less, not in just under a year getting back with her is, well, up to you though. i dont know her well enough to advise you one way or the other
^ i agree with allonym. but i would have to say start dating other girls and see what her response is or you could just talk to her about it. but idk.
well it took me about a year to get at her then we went out for 10months now were just close to each other in other words when we go out places we look like a couple thats together but were not, so all in all i been messing with her for about 3 and a half years now and still counting
