He is much older

Hi, I have this friend he is older than by 20 years i am in love with him and he is in love with me too we see each other every day and it is killing us tha we cant be seen together because he works in my school i am 17 almost 18 and he is the security guard there what can we do????? we love each other alot.

 

fuck

 

I'd have sex in the bathrooms during classes.

 

Is he married?

Are you a homewrecker?

 

I assume you'll be graduating in May of 09, correct?

If so, once you graduate, you'll be 18, out of the school, and you can make a decision if you want to persue a relationship with him. If you do anything now, you will risk permanently harming the man's life. If you have a relationship while you are still at the school, and it is made public, he will be fired at best, and you will never live it down. May is only a little over 7 months away. That is nothing. It may seem like forever, but it will be over before you know it. Hang in there, and wait until you graduate. It is absolutely the best thing you can do.

 

Get pregnant...

 

HORRIBLE idea.

 

Get pregnant and blackmail him into marriage....

 

he is not married and no i am not a homewrecker jaja

 

if by horrible idea you mean the soundest advice one could give, i agree

:lurk5:

 

thanks!! i try to wait

 

The one thread I decide to post something serious on and everyone else gets fruity.

 

we make out in the bathroom during my classes but no sex yet we dont want to get fucked up or pregnant or shit

 

i really apreciate you answer!!!

 

If it is meant to be, the wait will be worth it. Just stay busy and concentrate on school and when you get out, then get pregnant if you want to.

:hat:

 

Vigorously :cheers2:



Hotwater

 

Well don't get too used to it, I usually am only here to annoy people.

 

Well then, you gotta do what you gotta do MGM.

 

That would be the intelligent catholic thing to do.

 

i think someone should alert the proper authorities.