HE DONT CUM

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by Ang3lyz, Jan 16, 2023.

  1. Ang3lyz

    Ang3lyz Senior Member

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    YES I SAID THAT RIGHT HE DOESNT CUM WHEN I GIVE HIM A BLOWJOB HE HAS A HARD TIME STAYING HARD EVEN UNLESS WE TRY A SEX PILL AND THE ONLY ONES I FOUND WAS THE X WHICH I CANT EVEN FIND THOSE HE GETS OFF WITH PORN. AND LOOKS AT WOMEN ALL THE TIME BUT IM SURE ITS CAUSE IM NOT SKINNY AND SHIT LIKE THAT ...
     
  2. Romper

    Romper Lifetime Supporter Super Moderator

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    When you have regular intercourse (vaginal) does he cum then?
     
  3. Ang3lyz

    Ang3lyz Senior Member

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    yes most of the time
     
  4. Romper

    Romper Lifetime Supporter Super Moderator

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    I wouldn't worry about it then. Some guys just don't like blow jobs that much and prefer straight intercourse.
     
  5. straightma1e

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    I don't cum from a BJ. A hand job or full on intercourse will set me off but not oral sex. it's not that I don't enjoy a BJ but it's just what happens before the main event.
     
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  6. Andy Schumer

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    I was with someone who I wanted to play with, she loved giving oral and if I had been able to tolerate post orgasm she would have done it for as long as I let her do.
    And I wanted to try the experience.
    However she was not able to make me orgasm from oral, doing it too rough in a way that didn’t work for me, the way she wanted to do it.
    That was the problem, so using her hands was heavenly and she used her mouth once I reached the point of no return.

    Sharing the experience thinking maybe it will help.

    about him using porn, I don’t know what to say so I will keep silent on the issue
     
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  8. Andy Schumer

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    Or simply using the wrong technique for her guy. Some women got me to orgasm super fast and some had to spend more time working harder because they did it the way they knew and didn’t like directions that would have helped getting it done more quickly
     
  9. oldguynurse

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    Ang, puuuulleeese stop typing in all caps. tt's damn hard to read.

    As to the BJ problem. More than likely just a type of subconcious mental block. I once had an affair with a divorcing married lady whom I really liked. And we fucked like rabbits whenever we could. She really liked me also and wanted to suck me and swallow me and make me part of her body. Also, mouth work was one of my favorites.

    We tried two or three times, but I just could not cum for her. Once to the point I knew her jaw must be hurting so I just pulled her up and hugged her. It was just some sort of complicated mental thing I suppose. Probably would have taken weeks of therapy to figure out, but we just went on with our other activities.

    Perhaps that might be the same course to take for you. Don't try to figure it out, it's just the way it is. Let it be.
     
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  10. Ang3lyz

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  11. straightma1e

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    Here she goes with all caps again. (I think it's cute.) Sucking cock to completion or failure to complete is not the givers fault. It comes from the receiving end. If all of the women I've had suck my cock were at fault then how did they make other men cum from oral. Bottom line it isn't the givers fault. Ever. So stop putting that on yourself. He should be thrilled you like him enough to have his cock in your mouth. There are women who won't even let a cock get near their face much less in their mouth. So keep on having sex with him and take what you can get.
     
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  12. NubbinsUp

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    Text in all caps is harder to comprehend than conventionally formatted text is, but fully intelligible. If we're going to vote, I say that using punctuation, which the OP didn't do, would be the first and most important change to make for readers. Indicating the ends of complete ideas (sentences) with closing punctuation would be higher on the list than letter case.

    Regarding the fellatio-erection-ejaculation issue, many guys just can't relax enough to enjoy sexual pleasure with their members surrounded by teeth, which are sharp. In a trusting relationship, emasculation anxiety is an irrational fear, but it's a primal one with a clear basis. Aside from the resulting lack of ability to reproduce, the blood loss from having one's penis severed by a bite is likely to result in death. There's an evolutionary and survival imperative to protect it and to worry about damage to it. The association of damage and mortal injury to having something as sharp as a set of teeth around his appendage is understandable, even if it isn't universal.

    Similarly, I doubt many men could get or keep an erection if you held an open scissors firmly at the base of their penises, even if you had no intention to draw blood or emasculate them.
     
  13. Romper

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    Please, no more all caps. And, if you have a long post, please use paragraphs as they are a reader's best friend.

    @NubbinsUp some people are unable to use punctuation. Evidently she is one of them. Just getting rid of the all caps would make it easier to read her posts. In the past, I have gone through and punctuated a long post for a member. It comes easy to me as I have been writing all of my professional life.
     
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  14. straightma1e

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    John Bobbit had his cock sliced off and thrown out the car window into a field by his wife, Lorena. He lived to tell about it and after he recovered from reattachment surgery went on to do a few porn films. The moral of the story is if you have a small dick and want to be a porn star have someone cut it off. Just don't put it down the garbage disposal.
     
  15. Ang3lyz

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    thanks u think it’s cute on the phone i can’t see it but thanks dear
     
  16. Ang3lyz

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    sorry buddy it’s caps but i can’t see without it
     
  17. bill697cu

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    I would cum any way you wanted me to. Caps no caps who cares.
     
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    Sometimes there’s no way to tell from reading
     

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