Hi. Recently I'm having trouble reaching orgasm during sex with my husband. I don't know whats changed. We enjoy sex and It feels good but I'm not getting the feeling of build up or orgasm. Its putting me off sex. What can we do?
all i know is what my wife told me, stress and emotional turmoil can cause problems clear your mind, meditation and focus on fun and sex. thats all i got, hope it helps
It sure in your age but this is happening to my wife as well. She is going through early menopause and is common with women aging.
It could be you are in a lull sexually. In other words your body isn't craving or needing sexual release at the moment. Humans go through biological cycles or cycles of life and living processes as proven by the female menstrual cycle. Men have these cycles as well. There are other cycles, or biorhythms, that are believed to exist within the individual human make up. Your sex cycle may have dipped down for a while and should return in a few days or weeks. If the lack of orgasm has lasted more than that it might be a good idea to seek medical help as there may be a physical issue interfering with your sex drive.
Honestly, I would just take a break from penetrative sex and focus on pleasuring him for the time being. (Blow jobs etc.) Your sex drive will eventually return.