I was talking to a friend about our earlier days. Just a friend I'd blow if we didn't have luck with the ladies at night clubs. I remembered how few people knew my bi side and how one night when I was out on my own I stopped into an adult video arcade to get a few random loads. I already gave blowjobs to two guys when the third guy of the night came in my booth. I was already a little cum drunk so I didn't even look at his face, I just reached out to his pants and got to work on freeing up his dick and balls. I gave him the full cock and balls going over, rubbing his ass with one hand, massaging his balls with the other and when he came in my mouth he held my head and pushed in hard while I sucked and swallowed. When he was done he said 'Thanks Mark'. I looked at him and recognized him from work! I didn't expect to see him there. He was a married guy like me and no clue he was on the down low. After that we went to lunch together from time to time and I would blow him but it was to risky so we eventually stopped. That was to weirdest time. How about you?
I learned to not be surprised at whose cock I might wind up sucking and my biggest "problem" was blowing guys and they tell their friends, who came looking for me to blow them. Some of them I knew because they were the local fellas but some of them were, at first strangers, until they told me who told them that I was good at sucking dick and, as such, that was outing me, but I didn't care about that and hadn't worried about being outed since I was 16.
After many years I'm still in a well insulated closet. A few people have unexpectedly found out I like sex with men and even fewer have seen me crossdress. Most of my 'out' experiences were in high school when one neighbor caught me blowing my best friend neighbor. He wanted in which was okay with me but he also told a couple other guys and you know what happens from there. Fortunately at that age I was able to deny enough and just ended up blowing a few of the guys that I was closer to. But having my name used in a glory hole booth was a shock.
I'm pretty sure the first blowjob I ever gave a guy, at a hotel all nude party, was the BIL of my future wife's best friend. I about freaked seeing him for first time at a gathering at her friend's house a few years later. Either he didn't recognize me, or did and kept it quiet as was with his blonde wife. Ironically, I recognized his blonde wife from online dating, as she was attractive. And I had messaged her years earlier, but she never replied. She didn't recognize me either! Too bad I couldn't have had an MMF threesome with them both?! LoL!
Took my partner to visit her family in Tennessee. Secretly, she'd involuntarily "outed" me to her whole family prior to arrival. She's still pretty clueless (and/or indifferent) on how high that rates on the "betrayal" scale.