Have any men cheated on their wives with another man? How did you feel?

Have you ever cheated in a straight relationship with the same sex?

Do you regret it? Was it what you hoped it would be?

I'm married but have been bi-curious for a long time. More and more often I want to try sex with a man (as the bottom). I have spontaneously met a stranger and given him a blowjob before. Before I was married but still engaged. I don't really regret that as it was a good experience.

But no matter how much I think of it, I don't think I could come to actually do it. Also I basically have no time away from her that it would be feasible anyway.

 

Guilty. Started as a bucket list thing for him and I. But it turned to be quite pleasurable and continues in ways. I'm not feeling much guilt from it. Im no hypocrite. But he does for various reasons

 

Hundreds of times. If you want to be technical about it, many would consider it cheating. I don’t believe in monogamy. I have same sex sexual desires and my wife can’t give that to me. She knows now that I have had sex with men. She doesn’t know about before I told her. It would be bad probably if I told her how much dick I’ve sucked. I don’t feel guilty in the slightest about having sex with other men…or women. It’s just sex. To me, cheating is the emotional connection.

 

I've had sex with lots of married men who were denied sex at home. Their wives decided they didn't want anymore sex and thought their husbands should just accept it.
To me, I don't consider this cheating as she is the one who put him in that position. Most of these guys didn't want a divorce, nor did they want to take up with another woman, for fear of all the complications that would come from that.
They just wanted to get sucked off occasionally. I don't see anything wrong with it.

 

I've done it, maybe just once or twice a year, but still done it. I don't feel guilty about it, but sometimes the other man has been a turn off, and I've regretted it.

 

I agree with everything you said!!

 

Thank you for your service

 

It's always been my pleasure

 

Love to hear im not the only married guy who is curious to suck cock, im really curious, think about it alot, anyone who can relate to my desires, let me know.

 

I did and ended up having the same fuck buddy for 8 years. I have my own issues, sex addict and a narcissist. My wife ended up finding out and shit hit the fan big time. On the verge of loosing my best friend my wife Ive decided to be a better person. I’m now in SA and working on me and my narcissistic tendencies. It’s been 2 years since that day. I did fuck up one time since and I do miss my same sex encounters. Be careful opening Pandora’s box it will fuck with you bad.

 

Thanks for your advice, appreciate it

 

yes 3 times

 

Before I meet my current GF I got regular BJ's from a guy I met. Once I meet her I stopped for a while. She caught me giving myself a BJ and wasn't angry but jealous. She a if I ever have another man a bj and I told her the truth. I haven't but I've gotten many BJ's from other men. Surprisingly she didn't care. Even said if I was a guy I wouldn't care who sucked my dick. The only thing she said was " don't fuck anyone but me". Now her gay brother comes over very regularly to give me a bj. Sometimes she watches.

 

Also a married guy that is curious to suck cock.
I love pussy, but the thought of feeling another cock grow n my hand or slip into my mouth is a total turn on.

 

Forever curious as you, would be cool for two newbys to lose their virgin mouths on each others cocks !!

 

Nope, you're not the only guy who is curious to suck cock. May last fb wanted to watch me with another guy playing together as well as doing all the things a 3sum would enable. I took some persuasion so, to achieve that, she watched porn with me where guys were playing together and wanking alone. I quite enjoyed seeing the ending result and learning some different ways to get there and gradually became willing to fulfill that desire for her. No longer with that fb and with only a solo sex life, I am keen to find a guy to play with because I want to know what it would feel like to hold another guys cock and to see and feel it go off in my hand. I think I am quite choosy as I find some cocks look much more appealing than others. If I find one that looks appealing, I'd like to suck it too and perhaps try frotting as well. I wouldn't be in to penetration but do enjoy watching guys wanking or being wanked and I have experienced that via an online chat app. Geography may become an issue, in terms of real meets, because I am in the UK and most of the people on here seem to be in the USA.

 

I’m married but I have had sex with about 20-25 guys. Since my wife and I aren’t having sex and haven’t had sex in many years, I don’t really consider having sex with another man cheating. I do feel a little guilty afterwards but that feeling goes away and I start thinking about finding another guy to have sex with. So far, my sex with men has been limited to oral sex but I am looking to try getting fucked by another guy. I don’t get a lot of opportunities to meet up with guys though. Truth be told, if I had more opportunities, I would be doing it all the time