Has your wife ever watched you have sex with another woman or man?

My wife has always been the more sexually open one in our marraige. During her photography phase, she allowed me to have sex with another woman. Decades later , with her encouragement, she watched me with a male friend. How did it affect your relationship? To the positive, or negative?

 

Because of the situations,there were no emotional attachments involved.No kissing on my end, but when my wife was with our female friend, they were more passionate with each other. I didn't even get to watch. It was just for the experience, according to her. Hasn't anyone else had a bi experience. Good experience, or a bummer?

 

first time my ex wife was curious and asked if I'd let the 18yr old son of our next door neighbour fuck me as she watched for her birthday. she'd talked it over with him days before and that night he took me from behind as she sat in front of me soaking up every second.... it made our marriage stronger .

 

Yes many times,

 

Yep, she watched me with both women and men, tho mostly with other women.

 

What is her reaction? My gf says she would be too jelous with another girl but in MMf has seen me playing with the other guy

 

my first wife wanted to watch me get peged,but we never followed thru

 

Damn that's a shame. Did you ever get to share her with another guy?

 

yes we did wife swapping once, and before that I had a friend that I wanted her to do whichshe said yes but he wouldnt do her

 

How did swapping go?

 

It was ok butnot great. wife didnt like it not sure why to me it was the people we were with

 

That's a shame. Did you enjoy he was fucking your wife?

 

we were in sperate rooms i would liked it better if we could have watched each other

 

No jealousy at all. We're way past that. The MM play has usually come about when we have a foursome with another couple, and then the other guy meekly asks if I would be into same sex play. These are guys who mark themselves as "straight" on the swinging website we frequent.

 

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what was the sex play? I think a lot of guys think of themselves straight but in a swapping situation boundaries get blurred and less worried about hang ups and labels. This show I got started

 

Watching her with someone else or her watching me is the ultimate highlight of our otherwise boring lives. We are both in our very late 50's and our entire marriage has always involved others sharing our bed. There is not a jealous bone in either of us. Chances are that the man fucking her has also fucked me, and visa versa. Our group oof like minded friends is what keeps our otherwise boring lives full and exciting.

 

The wife has seen me having sex with another woman but she has not seen me with another man but a female friend has watched me having sex with another man and loved it when I was being fucked bareback by him and when I was riding his cock both with him cumming deep in me.

 

My present wife has witnessed me having oral and anal sex with men and women. She gets really turned on watching me suck cock.

 

My story is too long. She knew I had a suck buddy in college. We had talked about swapping and met a married boy couple on the net. They were both attractive in pics and we met them for drinks. I wanted them both. We agreed ahead of time no sex that first meeting. We got home and wife informs me she didn’t think she could handle seeing me (same room) or knowing I was having sex (separate rooms) so that was the end of that. My wife did hook up with the bi wife one night, but that was it. We shifted our focus to MFMs and had a few with a close friend. Absolutely incredible. Wife hinted we should find a bi guy for a MMF. COOL! We looked for quite a while without success, so we stuck with MFMs. One day she flatly said NO MORE!
So she’s never seen me having sex, but sharing her with our friend was incredible.

 

Should say “a married BI couple” as in m/f.