Does anybody find it harder to flirt when under a lot of other negative stressors of real life? Or is that skew for you, and flirting becomes a creative escape from stresses like work?
For me, flirting is usually accompanied, by ors a result of feeling content. No, I doubt I would flirt when stressed, PMT'ish or plain grumpy.
i'm pretty sure I could flirt under almost any circumstances...... people get laid in war zones all the time..... that would normally happen after flirting.
One drink, a couple of good songs, and the serious part of my day is forgotten. Time for fun. :cheers2:
most of my negative stressors in life come from my inability to successfully flirt. that said, if i feel that natural flirty connection with someone, i can do it anytime. but lacking that connection, it is easier if there's not other shit on my mind.
If I am overly stressed my flirting desires are seriously diminished. I need to be happy and carefree to flirt.
I have flirted while severely stressed out before. But then for me, I think it all depends on my mood. Sometimes I seek solace in that sort of thing, but other times, I seek solace in solitude. Funny how emotions work......
Huh so I guess what I experience is pretty universal then. Stress does impact the ability to flirt, and vice-versa as undie's put it. I know if I'm sleep deprived flirting and double-meaning comments, which people tend to do a lot in flirty-contexts, fly over my head.
Ever tried flirting in a comedy club? I would think you might have better success with the girls who hang out in those places.
I sometimes find the busier I am the easier I find it to flirt. You just don't have time to overthink it then I suppose
unfortunately i've never been to one. not that i don't want to, i just have generally not lived where there are any within a reasonable distance. i always kind of assumed women only went to comedy clubs with their boyfriends.
No, in a larger club, there are always a few tables that are two or more girls only. They usually get there early to socialize, and/or head to another nearby bar afterward. That's a good follow-up question at the end of the show. You need to find a job in the United States, if you know what I mean. Whatever place you're working now, you didn't sign a lifetime contract.
yeah, i really do love my job though. just not where it is. the key word being "good." any potential wingmen i have at the moment would scare away the most desperate woman.
