whether you're in a relationship or not, what kind of everyday things do you enjoy or fantasize enjoying with your snugglebunny? i think about things like sipping lemonade together while walking in the sun, or sharing a pint of ice cream while watching tv on the couch...happy as two peas in a pod.
we do everything together. snuggle while watching movies at home. We take walks in the part and at the zoo together. We spend every moment that we can together.
I haven't seen Kari for a month or two, but I still fantasize about lying in bed with her, looking into her eyes, and talking about whatever pops into out heads. I like nothing more. She means everything to me, and I long, only, to be with her. I miss her. It feels as though my throat has been ripped out.......I can't breathe right or anything. Everything I do feels as though something is missing
Laying in bed together, waking up in the morning kind of tangled up listening to the birds singing. Chatting, laughing, going for a walk, making other people laugh by the stupid things we do, me cooking and he groping my arse!! I miss my boyfriend
Shitting in the shower, throwing rocks at children, banging on the neighbor's door asking for 50 pounds of baking soda, making other people puke with the stupid things we do, group masturbation, incest, harakiri.
All the everyday things are better when we do them together. It doesn't matter what we do, it's the fact that we're together that makes it special. It sounds so cheesy but it's true.
Almost every hour thats not spent working is spent together. So more or less everything youd usually do alone becomes great
this has always been something of a problem, because as much as i love to hug, cuddle and so on, nearly all of the 'everyday' things i enjoy doing, tend to require a great deal of uninterupted solitude. exceptions are pretty much limited to eating, and mindless repetitive tasks being paid for. i used to fantacize the misson impossible gurding each other's back sort of thing. but that was ages ago when i was MUCH younger and more foolish. and even then i recognized that as being pretty much mostly fantasy. my wife and i did do some furnature restoration when we first got togather, but i think that's about it. oh and actually we did some of her 'coiture' crap togather too. but she wanted to think she was the big deal designer without actually putting any immagination into it, which was the part, i was interested in, but then neither of us ever got what doing so was worth so we both pretty much gave up on that idea. which anyway all the bizdroid nonsense was her thing anyway, which she fanatacizes but doesn't do well and which doesn't even interest me at all a little bit. well there was one, we used to both like wandering arround in the woods and exploring, but life interviened and dragged us appart. she was the one who loved horses and that was just before i ended up going up to oregon for a number of reasons, none of which having to do with her, so it was me that dogged out on THAT relationship. the one before HER, my first real 'bedmate', yah there's only been three, we used to immagineer houses and stuff, but we were totally emotionally incompatable that one, but we had some good sex for a while. i like seeing, dealing with, working on, nature and tecnology harmoniously togather. i think building little houses would be cool and stuff like that. little trains, silent electric trail bikes, maybe raising wild critters for species survival, that sort of thing. that and stuff on the computer. doing 3d 'art' (illustration) of the nature harmonious tecno-fantasies inside my head. i don't know, see, quite how to work on anything like that in a team environment, and i've never really had the patience (and trust) with people to be able to deligate the way it takes to manage anything. sometimes i do wish i had a better answer to that. going on long trips togather. cross country bus and train rides, that sort of thing, works out pretty much ok mostly, but it's not something we get a chance very often to do. =^^= .../\...