Handjob in Boxer Shorts

When my girlfriend isn't in the mood for sex as a compromise instead of a normal handjob she wants me to keep my boxers on and she just reaches through the fly and strokes me until I cum to avoid messy cleanup.

This is fine but due to me being tightly circumcised my dick rubs against the inside of my boxers and she only spits on her hand occasionally to avoid the friction. I sometimes get sore and a bit red afterwards. Is it safe for us to do handjobs this way? Is it normal (something most couples do at first)? How can I avoid getting sore when doing it this? Anyone got any better techniques for this method?

 

A- There’s no such thing as “normal”, nor should you be concerned with what is/isn’t normal. You do you! As long as it works for you, screw “normal”.

B- If you are tightly circumcised, it might be a good idea to use lotion or lube if she’s giving you a handjob, especially to avoid friction or soreness.

 

What is lube? How will that help me? Do you use it?

 

I do not use it regularly (I’m uncircumcised). But I have used it before. For you, it would make handjobs easier.

 

I don’t understand how it would make things easier, I’ve never used lube isn’t it for uncut guys?

 

It’s just lubrication to moisturize and keep it slick.

 

And no, it’s not for uncut guys.

 

Use lots of lube and take the boxers off. Your body isn’t messy. It’s your body. There are compromises but I feel like part of the pleasure of a handjob was the ejaculatory freedom men are able to feel and the visuals of seeing your beloved rocking your cock. Get cozy and talk about your needs during a pillow talk session.

 

Let him poke through the fly for easier rubbing. FUN!!

 

She doesn’t like doing it that way I’ve asked her loads of times. Always has to be her hand going inside my boxers only and my hand going down her thong, she uncomfortable with anything else

 

Have you tried the lube yet (astroglide or ky lube)?

 

Maybe you can mention to her to how a blowjob can need no cleanup, too.....

 

Yes I have recently bought some, hard to get her to use it she’s scared it’s going to be too noisy

She’s never given any ex’s blowjobs, not sure how it would help with cleanup either?

 

She’s never given any ex’s blowjobs, not sure how it would help with cleanup either?[/QUOTE]

Maybe it's time she learned then! She could just swallow it down, no mess! She might just like it, I'm certain you would.....

 

Maybe it's time she learned then! She could just swallow it down, no mess! She might just like it, I'm certain you would.....[/QUOTE]

Oh god never even thought of swallowing, do girls outside of porn even do that? Think it’s every guys dream to be sucked dry might ask her if she’s down for it

 

Oh god never even thought of swallowing, do girls outside of porn even do that? Think it’s every guys dream to be sucked dry might ask her if she’s down for it[/QUOTE]


I think if you look around here, it's not an uncommon thing, in fact, many enjoy it. I know you will.....

 

I think if you look around here, it's not an uncommon thing, in fact, many enjoy it. I know you will.....[/QUOTE]

I hope so, have you had it done to you often? Or do you prefer handjobs?

 

Take a stroll through the "oral and anal sex" category here, you'll find it's a normal sexual activity....

Prefer handjobs? Shit, I can do that myself. By orders of magnitude, I far prefer a blowjob from her, there's no comparison.

 

and do you usually cum in her mouth? Just asking as my gf wonders if it’s common or not.