Hair grooming consideration

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  1. ‘Cuse

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    55 yr old in shape white married man. Personal preference I understand. Writing post to hear from others, men/women single n married.

    I am not as hairy as I once was, leg hair has rubbed off with rubbing on clothes. Wife doesn’t like back hair, already trim pubic region. Considering the task of going smooth.

    Any comments or feelings on the matter?
     
  2. Daretobare

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    I went smooth for years on my genitals. My hairy body always troubled me. I dislike body hair. My wife wouldn't accept me going totally hairless. After I came out to her about my crossdressing and finding she was accepting, she agreed I'd look better dressed if hairless. I took everything off nose to toes. She did my back. We both found it nice. Awkward at first but now I'm never going back.
     
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  3. ‘Cuse

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    That’s very accepting. When going smooth did you ever worry about a questions from others? What is maintaining it like? Is wife still helping?
     
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  4. Daretobare

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    Maintaing is a huge pain in the butt! Yes my wife still does my back and I use Magic Shave powder in the outdoor shower about every two weeks on the rest of everything. I have a mangroomer for in between touchups
     
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  5. ‘Cuse

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    Gotcha - I like smooth also. Anyone ever ask weird questions?
     
  6. ‘Cuse

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    What’s magic shave powder
     
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  7. Daretobare

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    No. I believe most now realize that being smooth is the new normal
     
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    Buy it at CVS, Dollar general , Walmart. It's a powder you mix with water. It's similar to Nair
     
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  9. ‘Cuse

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    Sounds funny but I wish I had a buddy I could share the smooth discussion (fetish) with. I am getting ready to do a full body shave. Just be cool to have a trusted bud to share with. If you can understand what I mean
     
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  10. Scharff

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    I regularly get waxed. So does my FWB. In between I shave real close using jojoba oil first before I later up and I always use a fresh razor. It's really only stubble at that point since the waxing works so well. I use that on her too. The oil really helps as the razor works it's magic on the folds of her pussy lips. Very tight shave.
     
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    Personally I just like the way it looks and feels when completely shaven on both men and women. I've been shaving for a few years and only have to do it once every couple weeks. It is a pain but it gets easier as you go. What really makes it easier is being hard....LOL
     
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    I’ve been smooth for years, I asked my wife to shave smooth for me and she replied what’s good for the goose is good for the gander. I like the look and feel.
     
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    Smooth and clean every day
     
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    I like a clean shaven guy, it's nice not having to bust out the floss. I'm okay with leg hair and arm hair. Never been much for a guy with a beard/mustache/goatee. As a chick, I'd feel weird not shaving my legs and armpits. Shaving my goods makes sex feel even better. Trying not to nick yourself in such a sensitive area sucks though.
     
  15. Redwingsfan

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    I shave my chest face and downstairs I like the fell and not a big fan of my cock having sideburns. As for the woman whatever she wants to do is ok with me but I do prefer smooth. Licking skin is way better then licking hair but again it’s all up to her in what she wants to do
     
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  16. Redwingsfan

    Redwingsfan I’m just having a fun crazy time

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    Do you prefer your guy totally hairless downstairs or should he have a neatly trimmed patch above his penis?
     
  17. Curiouscouple2469

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    I do prefer the feel of it when I'm shaved, however I see the hairiest guys on the beach sometimes with what appears to be a plucked chicken in his lap and it just looks strange.
    I also have dark hair on my body, so the nut sack and those most irritating sideburns are removed daily, but the patch above I keep very short with a #1 trim a couple times a week.
    It's not so short its prickly but its short as you can go and still feel soft. I like my partner to be similar, a little patch above and clean where I eat. As long as it's not amazonian I'm good with whatever, but bald with a tuft is the preference here.
     
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  18. drumminmama

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    My preference is how my partner is.

    he has some vacillating opinions on his own fuzz, but fully accepts mine.

    I maintain my eyebrows and the rest is as intended.
     
  19. JeffT

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    I always hated excess body hair. I trimmed it for a while but gave that up and shaved completely from the neck down. I leave some hair on my arms but the rest is silky smooth. A daily touchup in the shower is all that's needed. I get some looks at the beach occasionally but no big deal. Had a few positive comments changing there too.
     

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