Gym Shower Proposition

I'd like to know if anyone out here has experienced this and how did you respond? Yesterday for the second time a gentleman has propositioned me in the gym shower but I am not comfortable acting anything out right there. I offered to go elsewhere, but he wasn't interested. He wanted action right there. I don't wish to loose my membership if caught doing something inappropriate. I told him sure, but not here...bummer.

 

I'm with you, I would want to take it somewhere else. Being discrete is very important. I would not want to lose a membership, or worse wind up in front of a judge facing a public indecency charge.

 

I used to belong to a cruisy Y with a lot of action in the steam room. The door was noisy to open so a blowjob could be aborted quickly before someone came in. Most of the men steamed naked so it wasn't unusual to see soft and hard cocks. Often the newcomer was known to the others so the cocksucker picked up where he left off. It wasn't unusual to suck three or four cocks in one visit.

Some guys just like the danger aspect of public sex. It's a good way to end up on a sex offender list.

 

That hasn't happened to me yet..I do fantasize about it.....but I would handle it the same way you did. I would say yes but somewhere else.

 

I have to admit, I've very seriously considered joining a gym (but haven't yet) for two reasons. 1- For swimming in the winter, and 2- To suck cock in the steam room. I realize it's a very risky thing but I think that is part of the attraction. Also, the idea of having more than one hard cock at my disposal is very exciting. It's interesting to hear other people's thoughts on this.

 

Trust me, I do feel the same way and would love the male/male interaction but I also enjoy swimming laps, and using the rowing machines and don't wish to loose access. I'm considering giving in to this man. He's propositioned me while taking a shower. The showers are individual but I don't close the curtain so when I was shampooing my hair he had a perfect view of my cock as he passed by. Yeah, I guess I enticed the proposition but I'm not sure about acting out and inviting him into my shower to suck my cock which is what he wants to do. They also have a steam room but I haven't made use of that yet but I will be. I just don't wish to loose my membership and yes, I would suck every cock in that steam room if they wanted me to do so. BTW, I did discuss it with my wife and she agreed it's not worth loosing my membership over.

 

I understand 100% and totally agree that it isn't worth losing your membership or worse, getting thrown in jail. The thought of it all is incredibly enticing but one must keep his whits about him. Just taking what started at the gym to a safer location seems much more responsible. But we can still fantasize.

 

I urge you to think with your head on this one, not your dick lol. Maybe if it's late enough in the day or there are other circumstances, the risk of any trouble might be low enough. And I admit it sounds tempting: right then and there or not at all. Generally I'd decisively pass. And make that shower cold lol. It's a big risk for a few minutes (or several minutes if you're lucky) of fun.
For future consideration, maybe there are gyms you can use where everyone who isn't involved turns a blind eye to this kind of thing, or there's so much activity no one would notice.

 

"Soulporker: maybe there are gyms you can use where everyone who isn't involved turns a blind eye to this kind of thing, or there's so much activity no one would notice."
They are called men's spas, gyms and bathhouses. Many have full gym equipment, pools, saunas, private rooms and men. Most have hourly or daily rates so you can try the out without having to commit to membership. Google "Men only gyms -- (your state)"

 

There have been some rather forlorn guys on other threads wondering how to find a 'third' for he and his SO, and some guys having no idea where to find a guy to fuck his wife.
I say go to the gym. You might get some action yourself and you may find a threesome partner.
Either way you will be in better shape, and clean from the shower/

 

Duh, of course! But then it would be kind of obvious what you're going there for, besides working out and such. But if that's not a problem (for example wife wondering why you have a bill for a bathhouse) it's worth considering.

 

Soul, just pointing out some options. Maybe use cash at the bathhouse.

 

I do appreciate it. Options are good though I don't think there are any bathhouses around me. But a 1-2 hour road trip might be in the cards!

 

I'd say it's not worth risking your gym membership over a bj.

I have experienced a gym shower proposition and gone forward with it, but the situation was different because we were the only two people left and I had the keys to the gym and was closing it up

 

I've never been approached and would not risk it. A couple of times when at school there were erections when showering after sport, but nothing was done other than noticing.

 

same here. I wonder if we belonged to the same Y lol.

the steam room was where one would go to see guys show their stuff. It was usually the ones who hung around the steam room and shower.
I’ve let guys watch me shower without being too risky, but wouldn’t want to actually go through with anything in a public place like that.

 

Well, yesterday I had the time to really talk to this man in the locker room after we both showered. I'm 58 and he's 61. We're both around the same height of 6 foot tall but he's got me weight wise, I'm a slender 150 lbs. were he's a stout 270 lbs. with quite a pot belly. He's not a bad looking man, just has a big belly which I never experienced before. He wanted to talk as he told me he'd be interested in getting together outside of the gym as I requested but not at his home since his sister lives with him since his wife past four years ago. I told him if we decide to do so that we can certainly do so at my home as my wife is fully aware of my bisexuality and participates or watches most of the time. That really blew his mind and said "I'd need privacy, just the two of us"...No problem I replied as I would need to clear it with her too, I hide nothing from her but she is going to want to meet you so can you do that? He said he could do that, and followed with "I really want to suck your cock"...I sucked my first one last month and had such an enjoyable time and when I saw you showering I was aroused by the site of your cock. I smiled and thanked him for the compliment and stated "Are you willing to allow me to suck your cock as well after seeing what you got, since I've yet to see yours?"...We're in the locker room, just the two of us sitting with our towels around our wastes so he stands up and removes his towel...OMG! His flaccid uncircumcised cock was at least 8" long, very thick, with a HUGE set of balls the size of plumbs. I followed up with..."Is that "thing" fully functional...get's hard and still cum's?". Yes, I jerk off and it make's a mess but honestly I haven't had sex or even a blowjob since my wife past as guys have been scared when I showed it to them so I'm more interested in sucking your cock than you sucking mine but if you'd like to you're welcome to do so. Needless to say, I was and and up for the challenge of this thing. I then asked how big is it fully erect? He said he never measured it but it's really big. I then asked if I could take a photo of it to show my wife and he agreed. I told him I would call him to make arrangements this weekend provided he is still interested. I get home and tell my wife of this conversation, I told her of the initial proposition so she was aware. Anyway, I show her the photo of his cock and her eyes about popped out of her head and said "You're going to attempt that?"...I replied only if you are here to witness it and yes I would like the challenge. She replies "Honey, that thing has to be a foot long if it get's fully hard, and is so thick"...I know I said, I'm have got to see this thing in action. She did say, there is know way he's fucking you in the ass with that thing. I agreed, I just wanted to suck on it. So, I called him back and he's coming over Sunday for lunch to meet my wife and get some "Man-Play-Time" on. I can't wait, I hope it lives up to his word.

 

I do hope you share about the experience and it’s a good one. Was hot reading about it for sure!

 

DAMN!! That sounds like it could be a great new experience. A hot story. Best of luck!

 

I'm so glad things have turned in this interesting direction! Have a great time Sunday.