I hate when I'm out somewhere with my friends and there's always that guy who thinks he can just come up behind you and put his hands on your waist. It's worse if we want to go to a club! I don't even dance anymore, It gets so creepy! If your out on the floor dancing they just start grinding themselves all upon you from behind. They are like animals looking to mate. Next time I may just have to start doing the running man and "accidentally" knee someone in the jewels.
Thats why i dont go to clubs...Anybody puts there unwanted hands on me,they will have a busted nut sack period
yeah it's so fucking annoying...i always go to this club with my cousin and i tell him not leave me alone cos of the sharks...there are too many creeps there!!
its not just clubs... there are people (guys definatly among that group) that are like that. something to do with male socialization or soemthing.
to say someone looks like a dream and you have to touch isn't an excuss for unwanted or uninvited advances. its sucks to have unwanted advances, especially when the individual doesn't seem to notice or care that you are uncomfortable. i'm a person who deserves a little space once and awhile and so is everyone else.
hun, he was only kidding... and yeah, most men arent, and thats when you slap them or like i said bust the sack...
I dunno it's as if dancing isn't a form of sexual ritual that people regularly engage in, usually inebriated, to loose that sense of responsibility gained from the 9-5 duldrums. Its like by dressing up attractively (maybe?) and dancing in a hot, and, quite confined club, shaking your booty and pushing up your breasts while looking around, smiling instinctively (...ya know, just in case someone is watching), you're NOT trying to attract members of the opposite sex, or maybe the same sex. whatever. Try feeling maybe a bit complimented. And how cool it would be to have a bolt going right through skull without killing you.
Try feeling a bit complimented?! What the fuck? Would you feel complimented if I, a random guy you've never seen before, start grinding my crotch over your ass?? I'm on the girls' side here, definitely. I'm not into clubbing at all, but your reply is ridiculous. Dressing up to look more attractive, sure, but not just for anybody.
You should see the fuckin school dances we have up here. Fuckin adolescent, pimple-faced country folk grindin up against each other to shitty techno and rap.
wow i thought that was only my school...except we have really obese girls here dressed like sluts wearing belly shirts and mini skirts...i just go to make fun of them...
It's really sad but I think that alot of guys & girls go to clubs looking for someone to have some fun with.. In a sense you kind of can't blame a guy for trying although it is seriously a pain in the butt when they jump on you w/o asking.. I usually turn the other way and majority of the times they take a hint.. You have to figure though that they probably keep on doing it b/c they have managed to get away with it in the past so they figure that "what can it hurt?" Anyways, just take a friend with you when you go and try to dance with them mostly.
Don't blame us, you are the ones who are always saying "I want a guy with confidence", that is why guys do stuff like that, cuz girls say they like it, and then you guys get all pissed off when we do stuff like that, make up your mind! PS. I dont mean to be hostile, it just seems like girls don't know what they want, I have been having trouble with girls for a while, they just confuse the shit out of me and seem like they don't know what they want and cant make up their mind. First say they say they want nice guys, but then they go out and hook up with all the assholes, what are we supposed to think? that's what makes us assholes, because it seems like girls really dig assholes. Peace and Love, Dan