I figured I have a really tight foreskin and a tight/short frenulum which means I can't retract my foreskin when I'm erect. It's painful.. I went to the doctor too and he confirmed that. But I think I got phimosis, I mean when I'm erect, you can see the gland(that's how we spell it?), but not all of it. Last time I went to the doctor was on January/February and he scheduled me a surgery for circumcision. I accepted it..but now I'm not sure, I wanna keep my foreskin. I heard a steroid cream can cure this. Is there a cure that's not to get circumcised(not a big fan of this) and if I get circumcised, I know it's because of medical reasons. I've never had sex and I think this plays a role in it. I should be ready, I can't show a girl this. So guys/women, any advice? Past experience guys?
firstly mate, chill. It was offered to me when I got balanitis. I refused, but now wish I hadn't. Many women prefer circumcised men. You will smell/taste better. Its easier to clean. Less chance of infection. Its also fairly minor surgery. The steriod cream would only help with an imflammed forskin that couldn't be retracted. If you really Arne comfortable with it talk to a health care professional. But I would recommend it.
get the surgery, I'm circumsized, and I think that any guy that is cicumsized doesnt have any complaints, there always seems to be big debate about cut or uncut....to me it just seems like to much of a pain in the ass the take care of, and for what? I like that I can just whip it out and play and then put it away when im done...
Get circumsized. Makes your pecker much more attractive and much better for oral sex. My son was youngest son was circumsized at about 14, (he was a preemie, so it wasnt done at birth.) He was sore for about 3 or 4 days. He doesnt regret it.
I have a similar problem, I couldn't even retract it when it wasn't erect. I went to the doctor and he gave me some ointment and said if that didn't work I'd have to be circumsized. After the 3 months i was able to pull back the foreskin when my penis wasn't erect, I went back for my check up and showed him and he said it's fine and i didn't need surgery, but i still can't pull it back when erect. To try and get it used to it I pull it back when it's not erect and leave it to get erect, it feels uncomfortable for a while and I don't really know if it's working. What should I do??
Not true at all. Most girls i have talked to about it think its disgusting. I agree, its just mutating the body.
im half if that makes sense.. i wasnt at first till.. this girl pull the skin too hard and the string that connects to the tip? broke lol.. i was hell scared HAHHA but all good now it pulls back like im cirumcised but i can pull the foreskin as normal.
Same thing happened to me when I was little. I must have been trying to masturbate or something because until then I could never retract my foreskin, and finally I just forced it. Since then it goes smoothly.
hahha yea.. something you don't forgot. she almost made as if it was a jackhammer but luckily in happen in the shower cause there was more than a mess there i never really answered your question tho Formertechno34 but its really up to if you wanted it. I used to be like that.. didnt mind me. kinda hurt tho cause of the tightness good'o'lube can fix that problem. probably better if you got it done, so you dont through what i did lol wasnt as much painful just stings for a bit and saves you going through the shock of you life.
Sounds like you had a short frenulum, which snapped when pulled too strongly. No big deal now, if all is OK during intercourse.
If the foreskin can be pulled back when soft, but is much too tight around the penis shaft when erect, and is uncomfortable, you should consult the doctor again and tell him about this. I don't know how old you are of if you have started having intercourse, but it may be uncomfortable to have intercourse in this condition, and if the tight foreskin cuts off the blood flow, you could damage your penis. Unlike one of these posters, circumcision is not disgusting, but is a common procedure that will make you feel much better about sex. 120 million of us in the U.S. have had it done, and we like the look and feel of it.
